When Law Enforcement Fails To Help Victims…

When a case does not receive a complete and competent law enforcement investigation, it is truly devastating. I have worked with many co-victims across the country, and sadly, this happens everywhere.

Sometimes it is due to a lack of enthusiasm. Sometimes it is because mistakes were made early in the investigation, and officials try to cover up that incompetence. Sometimes it is done to keep crime statistics down. Sometimes—yes, this really does happen—it is to protect someone who has connections to law enforcement. There are many reasons.

Even when mistakes occur, they are sometimes hidden to avoid accountability. Then the cover-up of the mistake becomes another problem, and the cover-up of the cover-up grows even worse.

Go figure. I guess the victims don’t matter, and the fact that these failures can leave a murderer walking the streets is somehow considered acceptable.

 https://aequitasresource.org/ – AEquitas advances justice in cases of sexual violence, intimate partner violence, stalking, and human trafficking by equipping prosecutors and their multidisciplinary partners with the training, expertise, and strategies to hold offenders accountable and deliver fair, effective justice for survivors. We’re a team of former prosecutors and multidisciplinary experts who have decades of experience and specialized expertise, working globally to hold offenders accountable and promote victim safety.

AEquitas explains it this way:

“Typically, the perpetrator harasses and attacks the victims and the victim’s family. Often, the offender’s family members and friends attack as well (they say, ‘Don’t snitch to others’). When members of the criminal justice system do not respond appropriately to intimidation and fail to correct system deficiencies that enable opportunities to intimidate, they become inadvertent accomplices to the intimidators. The victim, victim’s or witness’s immediate family, including spouses, children, and pets, become targets.”

This is exactly what happened during the stalking. A detective attempted to speak with the main suspect, but he moved out of the house where he was living to avoid the sheriff’s department. When the detective went to the suspect’s workplace, the suspect’s father threatened the deputies.

The deputies asked the father to bring his son in for questioning. Although the suspect was over 18, his father eventually brought him in. They insisted he was innocent and threatened to sue. The sheriff’s department backed off.

After our daughter was killed, the second suspect and her father even took us to court because of my blog, morgansstalking.com. They were able to obtain free legal assistance to continue harassing us, while we were forced to spend thousands of dollars on an attorney we could not afford.

Of course, they lost—but we were still left paying the price. We already paid the highest price imaginable—we lost our daughter. Yet, we were still forced to defend ourselves simply for speaking the truth and seeking justice for her. That is the reality many victims’ families face.

We grieve, we fight, and we refuse to be silent while failures in the system allow dangerous people to remain free. Silence protects the wrong people. And as long as we have a voice, we will keep using it.

The Stalking and Murder of Morgan Ingram Pt.3 – The Victim’s Voice: A True Crime Podcast

This is the final episode of the Morgan Ingram case. We talk about Morgan’s 11-minute autopsy, the toxicology reports, and the many mistakes in the death report from Garfield County.

Check out The Victims Voice Facebook Page for photos from this episode!

https://open.spotify.com/search/The%20stalking%20and%20murder%20of%20morgan%20ingram%20pt.3

In The Beginning…We Had No Idea What To Do

Our 19-Year-Old Daughter Was Being Stalked. We Had No Idea What To Do.

For 4 months, we didn’t sleep through the night. Have you ever experienced this type of terror?

Recent Podcast Interview – I’d Love for You to Listen

I was recently a guest on the following podcast. Please watch it when you have a moment.

https://youtu.be/Cbcg_yv4Pa4

Host: Carol Witt – Founder @ Y.E.A. Global | Teaching Mindset & The 7 Pillars to Thrive | Coach • Trainer • Author • Podcast Host • Song Writer | In collaboration with Amir A. Abdalla—Transforming 1M Leaders by 2030

Carol wrote:

We Are Not Talking About This Enough. And It Is Costing Lives.
Last Friday on Women Empowered Across The World, we heard a story that no parent should ever have to tell.
Toni Ingram lost her daughter to stalking in 2011.
Let that sit.
Her daughter, Morgan, was not “overreacting.”
She was not “being dramatic.”
She was not “imagining it.”
She was being stalked.
And the system did not protect her in time.
Out of unimaginable grief, Toni chose purpose.
She became a victims’ advocate.
She founded MorganIngram.com, a platform dedicated to educating the public about stalking behaviors, warning signs, and victim support.
She now serves as West Coast Director for Families of Homicide Victims and Missing Persons, working tirelessly to improve awareness, justice system protocols, and survivor resources.
This is not a rare problem.
Stalking is often minimized.
Dismissed.
Romanticized in media.
Ignored until it escalates.
And it escalates.
Toni shared realities most people do not understand:
• Stalking is patterned, obsessive behavior — not “harmless attention.”
• Victims often struggle to be believed.
• Law enforcement systems are not always connected across jurisdictions.
• Safe homes often do not accommodate pets — forcing victims to choose between safety and leaving their animals behind.
• Education is severely lacking for youth and adults alike.
We talk about empowerment.
We talk about leadership.
We talk about boldness.
But empowerment without safety is incomplete.
If your daughter says she is scared — believe her.
If your friend says someone won’t stop contacting them — take it seriously.
If you are in leadership — advocate for stronger policies and awareness programs.
We need:
✔ National databases that connect stalking incidents
✔ Education in schools about stalking behaviors
✔ Better cross-agency communication
✔ Expanded safe housing resources
✔ Community awareness campaigns
This is not just a legal issue.
It is a cultural issue.
And culture changes when leaders speak.
Toni’s courage to relive her loss publicly is not for attention — it is for prevention.
She does not want another mother to stand where she stands.
This post is not meant to be comfortable.
It is meant to wake you up.
Stalking is real.
It is escalating.
It is deadly.
And ignoring it does not make it disappear.
If this message moves you:
Share it.
Talk about it.
Educate your children.
Support advocacy organizations.
Demand better systems.
Awareness saves lives. Please watch this episode and share it with everyone
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Hosts: Carol Witt, Jaclyn Zoccoli, Meg Grett-Pratt, Pat Tracy