9 Years Ago Today…

Our dragonfly candle is burning today for Morgan (our little dragonfly baby). It has now been exactly 9 years since I woke up, on that cold Friday morning, December 2, 2011, and found Morgan’s body…there are no words I can ever use to describe what that felt like. The pain was indescribable, and still is.

This morning, Steve said to me, while choking back his tears, “They murdered our baby, then lied about it!” What can I say to him? There is nothing I can do to change what was done to her, or how officials circled the wagons, and lied in order to change the truth, to cover up a murder. It is all so very wrong, but I know life is not always fair and never has been.

So, in all these past 9 years, Steve and I have pushed forward, trying everything we could think of to have Morgan’s case investigated (her murder was NEVER investigated). We are not giving up – we are gearing up for another big push. Every year we receive more and more information and evidence, as to what happened to her, and who was involved in her murder, and the subsequent cover-up of that murder.

Today & tonight, our family will grieve over the loss of our special and much loved Morgan. I know she will be wrapping her arms around us while we cry – I only wish we could see her again, hug her again, and kiss her once more.

My heart is breaking, but I still believe in “Lady Justice” and will continue to fight, till my dying breath, to see justice served for Morgan. I am determined to see the scales of justice balanced, for Morgan, as well as all victims of stalking and murder. This determination is the biggest reason I have not curled up into a ball of grief, sadness, and suffering. Determination, against all odds, keeps me focused, and hopeful. Never give up on hope, with hope, anything is possible.

Call me a dreamer, but I still believe in miracles, truth, honesty, fairness and love, and most of all I truly believe, if you never give up the fight for justice, you can move mountains. So, wish us luck, in the next 12 months we intend to move mountains…

What Law Enforcement Should Know When Investigating A Stalking Case…

Number one – after 4 months of an active criminal investigation into the stalking, our daughter, Morgan, turns up dead, WHY, WHY, WHY did they only write third degree criminal trespass (petty offense) and harassment, and repeated communication at inconvenient hours (felony)? Why wasn’t stalking listed? Our detective told us this was a felony stalking case, when he was finally brought on.

Number twomake NO MISTAKE, as you can read for yourself, the report names Keenan Vanginkle as the main suspect, and suspect #1 as “unknown.” They knew Brooke Harris was the other suspect, but she was just under 18 at the time of the stalking, so she was redacted from the reports. So, please stop listening to anyone who tells you Brooke & Keenan were not involved in the stalking – they were!

Number three – Click on and listen to the video below…you can stop a stalker, and you can stop a murder, as per stalking expert, Mark Wynn. I believe him. Morgan did not, and should not have lost her life to her stalker…it could have been stopped! I encourage law enforcement to listen and make these important changes.

Law enforcement should:

  1. Not minimize these cases…it is tombstone mentality!
  2. Believe the victims, listen to them, treat them respectfully, and sensitively, it is the most important and the most important single intervention of most victims of crime
  3. Put the pieces together
  4. Listen to the victim
  5. Look at all of the incidents
  6. Stalking is a course of conduct and requires continual investigation
  7. Remember context is everything in a stalking case
  8. The job of law enforcement is to piece all the pieces of the puzzle together
  9. Look for who has a motive to do these acts
  10. Look for corroboration, evidence
  11. Interview the suspect – there is an offender who is after an identified victim
  12. Seek search warrants
  13. Use other investigative techniques, as those used in drug busts, saving a life is as important, if not more important than any drug bust
  14. Focus on the offender, and the victim – how easy can it get? You know who they are, and where they are going, as they stalk their victim.
  15. Develop mutual aid agreements to respond to stalking that crosses city, county and/or state lines.
    1. Stalkers have no boundaries, so we have to be on the same page, we have to communicate with each other, no reason we can’t talk across state & county lines. We can have mutual aid agreements, between police & sheriffs, from one city to one county to one state, because these offenders move through different places, as well as victims who run from state to state.
  16. Have clear policies, within your department, for responding to stalking and managing a case over time
  17. Every law enforcement agency should have a policy or protocol for stalking cases
  18. Include the victim in the safety planning
  19. Connect victims with advocates (prosecutor, neighbors, co-workers, etc., anyone who can help the victim). Don’t tell the victim to keep the fact that they are being stalked from others, as we were told by the sheriffs
  20. Enforce all orders of protection. Morgan wanted an order of protection, Detective Glassmire asked that she hold off in order to give them more time to make an arrest…that arrest did not come in time, Morgan was murdered. Law enforcement, many times, look at orders of protection as a civil matter, when in reality, they work as a trip wire when it comes to stalking cases. When an offender breaks a protection order, that is an indicator that they are thumbing their nose at the court and this offender is dangerous, so arresting the offender for breaking the order is a counter-stalking technique and should be utilized
  21. You can not minimize these cases – it is the most dangerous thing you can do in law enforcement. DO NOT give in to minimization
  22. Stalking and murder often go together
  23. Stalking is serious, pervasive and lethal

https://victimsofcrime.org/stalking-resource-center/

Morgan was stalked in Garfield, Colorado – here is how the law is listed in Colorado

This page lists the most applicable state crimes addressing stalking. However, depending on the facts of the case, a stalker might also be charged with other crimes, such as trespassing, intimidation of a witness, breaking and entering, etc. Check your state code or consult with your local prosecutor about other charges that might apply in a particular case.

Stalking

Analyzing Stalking Laws


Stalking

C.R.S. 18-3-601. [Formerly 18-9-111 (4) (a)] Legislative declaration. (2010)
(1)  The general assembly hereby finds and declares that:

 (a)  Stalking is a serious problem in this state and nationwide;

(b)  Although stalking often involves persons who have had an intimate relationship with one another, it can also involve persons who have little or no past relationship;

(c)  A stalker will often maintain strong, unshakable, and irrational emotional feelings for his or her victim, and may likewise believe that the victim either returns these feelings of affection or will do so if the stalker is persistent enough. Further, the stalker often maintains this belief, despite a trivial or nonexistent basis for it and despite rejection, lack of reciprocation, efforts to restrict or avoid the stalker, and other facts that conflict with this belief.

(d)  A stalker may also develop jealousy and animosity for persons who are in relationships with the victim, including family members, employers and co-workers, and friends, perceiving them as obstacles or as threats to the stalker’s own “relationship” with the victim;

(e)  Because stalking involves highly inappropriate intensity, persistence, and possessiveness, it entails great unpredictability and creates great stress and fear for the victim;

(f)  Stalking involves severe intrusions on the victim’s personal privacy and autonomy, with an immediate and long-lasting impact on quality of life as well as risks to security and safety of the victim and persons close to the victim, even in the absence of express threats of physical harm.

(2)  The general assembly hereby recognizes the seriousness posed by stalking and adopts the provisions of this part 6 with the goal of encouraging and authorizing effective intervention before stalking can escalate into behavior that has even more serious consequences.

C.R.S. 18-3-602.  Stalking – penalty – definitions – Vonnie’s Law. (2012)

(1) A person commits stalking if directly, or indirectly, through another person, the person knowingly:

(a) Makes a credible threat to another person and, in connection with the threat, repeatedly follows, approaches, contacts, or places under surveillance that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship; or

(a) Makes a credible threat to another person and, in connection with the threat, repeatedly follows, approaches, contacts, or places under surveillance that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship; or

 

(b) Makes a credible threat to another person and, in connection with the threat, repeatedly makes any form of communication with that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship, regardless of whether a conversation ensues; or

 

(c) Repeatedly follows, approaches, contacts, places under surveillance, or makes any form of communication with another person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship in a manner that would cause a reasonable person to suffer serious emotional distress and does cause that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship to suffer serious emotional distress. For purposes of this paragraph (c), a victim need not show that he or she received professional treatment or counseling to show that he or she suffered serious emotional distress.

(2) For the purposes of this part 6:

(a) Conduct “in connection with” a credible threat means acts that further, advance, promote, or have a continuity of purpose, and may occur before, during, or after the credible threat.

(a) Conduct “in connection with” a credible threat means acts that further, advance, promote, or have a continuity of purpose, and may occur before, during, or after the credible threat.

 

(b) “Credible threat” means a threat, physical action, or repeated conduct that would cause a reasonable person to be in fear for the person’s safety or the safety of his or her immediate family or of someone with whom the person has or has had a continuing relationship. The threat need not be directly expressed if the totality of the conduct would cause a reasonable person such fear.

 

(c) “Immediate family” includes the person’s spouse and the person’s parent, grandparent, sibling, or child.

 

(d) “Repeated” or “repeatedly” means on more than one occasion.

(3) A person who commits stalking:

(a) Commits a class 5 felony for a first offense except as otherwise provided in subsection (5) of this section; or

 

(b) Commits a class 4 felony for a second or subsequent offense, if the offense occurs within seven years after the date of a prior offense for which the person was convicted.

(4) Stalking is an extraordinary risk crime that is subject to the modified presumptive sentencing range specified in section 18-1.3-401 (10).

(5) If, at the time of the offense, there was a temporary or permanent protection order, injunction, or condition of bond, probation, or parole or any other court order in effect against the person, prohibiting the behavior described in this section, the person commits a class 4 felony.

(6) Nothing in this section shall be construed to alter or diminish the inherent authority of the court to enforce its orders through civil or criminal contempt proceedings; however, before a criminal contempt proceeding is heard before the court, notice of the proceedings shall be provided to the district attorney for the judicial district of the court where the proceedings are to be heard and the district attorney for the judicial district in which the alleged act of criminal contempt occurred. The district attorney for either district shall be allowed to appear and argue for the imposition of contempt sanctions.

(7) A peace officer shall have a duty to respond as soon as reasonably possible to a report of stalking and to cooperate with the alleged victim in investigating the report.

(8)

(a) When a person is arrested for an alleged violation of this section, the fixing of bail for the crime of stalking shall be done in accordance with section 16-4-103 (2) (d), C.R.S., and a protection order shall issue in accordance with section 18-1-1001(5).

(b) This subsection (8) shall be known and may be cited as “Vonnie’s law.”

(9) When a violation under this section is committed in connection with a violation of a court order, including but not limited to any protection order or any order that sets forth the conditions of a bond, any sentences imposed pursuant to this section and pursuant to section 18-6-803.5, or any sentence imposed in a contempt proceeding for violation of the court order shall be served consecutively and not concurrently.

The Unlovely Truth Podcast: Episode 42: The Stalking of Kristin

I am so honored to have been a guest speaker on the podcast called “The Unlovely Truth,” by Lori Morrison. Please click on the link below to listen in. The story about Kristin’s stalking is horrific, as so many stalking stories are…it is always important to remember that stalking is serious, dangerous, insidious and needs to be stopped before it becomes lethal. Please share to help with awareness.

Lori told me that this episode has already being downloaded at her fastest rate ever!  Let me know what you think about the episode, once you have listened to it.

Lori also said, “Thank you again for sharing so much wisdom and practical advice. I know it will make a difference in many people’s lives.”
I am so thankful to have been given the opportunity to share some information, so that others can have the same knowledge, that sadly I did not have until I had to travel this lonely journey, since Morgan’s stalking and murder.
#RaiseAwareness
#Justiceforallvictimsofstalking
#JusticeforMorgan

National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims

On this National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims, please remember Morgan (8.16.1991 – 12.2.2011), and hold her in your heart, as well as all other victims of murder. They were all taken too soon. 

We must always; Seek Justice, Ensure Victims’ Rights, Inspire Hope…and never give up!

Here are some links you may want to watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hrfqna-8j0

https://www.crowdcast.io/e/ndrmv2020  

To all those whose lives have been forever shattered by the murder of your loved one, never forget and never give up your search for justice…we never will! 

#Justice4Morgan