Friday, August 12, 2011 – the 11th day of Morgan’s Stalking

After work today we went to purchase more motion detector lights, the high intensity types, along with more motion detector alarms.  We are trying to completely cover the perimeter of our house, and perhaps get advanced warning of someone approaching.

Earlier in the day at  2:58 pm I sent Morgan a text message, “M – text me a really good picture of Wyhla, and is that how you spell her name?”  Morgan texts me back, “You have a picture of her on your phone.  Or dad’s.  It’s Wylah.”

At 4:23 pm I sent her a text back, “Thanks!”  Then Morgan sends me a text that says, “Mhm.  Whatcha doing?”  At 5:59 pm I send an answer, “Just leaving Costco should we come get you?”  At 6:17 pm she responds, “No, it’s cool I was just wondering why you wanted a pic.”  I said, “To send to Bill.”  Bill is Morgan’s Godfather – he lives in Kauai.  She had just spent 2 weeks with him, and his wife Diane in June, and had such a wonderful time with them both…she misses them.  They haven’t seen a picture of her new puppy yet, so I thought I would send them one.  Morgan writes back, “Aww.  Yay.”

At 6:38 pm I sent her a text that says, “Suppose you can do that later perhaps?”  (not sure what that was about, I guess she must have called or sent her dad a text about something).  Then at 7:43 pm I sent Morgan a text that said, “Almost 8:00 pm can we come get you?”  Morgan texts back, “Give me an hour?”  I say, “OK – 8:45 where?”  Morgan texts back, “Mom…Nine.  Just call me when you’re close.”  I sent her another text at 8:46 pm, “We are at the Methodist Church right one?” She texts back, “K. Just a second.”

It’s strange to suddenly be treating our 19-year-old daughter like she was twelve again, but she doesn’t seem to mind at all.  She’s afraid, we’re afraid, and we are trying not to talk about our fear – talking about it would make it real.

Her stalking has been going on for 11 days now, and even though I may call it a quiet night, we don’t really sleep well.  Our guard has been raised and we are becoming, what the sheriff’s tell us later is called “hyper-vigilant.”  It’s like when you sleep in a new place that you are uncomfortable in, every noise no matter how small or slight, has added significance now.  We lie in bed and instead of kissing and saying, “Good night honey” we talk about what we are going to do if we should hear a rock against the window, because we know someone is out there trying to terrorize us.  Who’s going out the front door?  Who’s going out the back door?  Mag lights on, Mag lights off?  How are the two of us going to corner him/her?  We actually have no idea who he is, or if it’s even a he.  So far we have never caught the slightest glimpse.  If it were not for his/her actual footprints, up against our house in front of our windows, we would be dealing with that small doubt – we have had so many theories from our friends that maybe the windows could make noises on their own with temperature changes, or it could be bats with faulty sonar that smack into windows – however none of those leave Etnie skater shoe footprints on the ground.

Morgan still feels safer sleeping in our closet on the floor, and tonight there was no noise on the closet window…it was a quiet night.

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Serial Stalkers

Serial Stalkers

Although many victims of stalking may feel that their stalkers have chosen them because they represent something unique and desirable, and that the stalker is fixated on and possessed with only them, this often isn’t the case.  Detectives often find that if a complete background investigation is made into the stalkers past there are often other cases of prior stalkings.

What percentage of stalkers are serial stalkers?  Experts say that more than half of the stalkers in America have been involved in prior incidents of stalking.  Psychiatrists cannot accurately predict when the behavior will stop or re-occur but they know that about two-thirds of those showing obsessive behavior have had prior episodes.

Far too often, a look in into the past actions of a stalker can be a frightening glimpse into how the present stalking will end.

Frustrated serial stalkers don’t have to have had an intimate relationship before they begin stalking their victim, and they may even stalk more than one victim of the same household at the same time.

Although stalking victims may desperately want to know why they were chosen as the victim, what they might have done to trigger a stalker’s obsession with them, often, they find the answer is nothing.  
They are just one of a serial stalker’smany victims.  These stalkers are simply following a pattern of behavior they have practiced for years.  No matter what the reason or cause for the stalking, victims should be cautioned that serial stalkers in particular are very disturbed individuals.

Thursday, August 11, 2011 – The 10th day of Morgan’s stalking

Morgan tells us in the morning she has decided that she will just send me text messages from her cell phone whenever she hears a noise on the closet window (she is still sleeping in my closet), this way nobody can hear her call out to me in the room.

Morgan’s car is no longer running, so she either takes my car, or the bus, or gets a ride with friends when going places. Morgan goes up to Aspen to drop off something as a favor for me, and also to visit with friends.  She sends me a text message at 1:53 pm, “Delivered :)”, I wrote back, “Perfect/thanks!”  Then at 7:32 pm I sent her a text that said, “Just passing the airport.  Where should we meet??”  We are going into Aspen to pick her up and bring her home.  Morgan texted back, “I’m at Paul’s.  Gonzo’s right next door.”  I sent her a text back, “K  – be there soon.”  Morgan sent back, “K”, then I sent back, “We are here.”  “We” meaning Steve and I, so we now all drive back down valley to go home together.  We get home by 9:00 pm tonight.  Tonight we think we hear noise outside our master bedroom…Steve does a loop around the house with a flashlight, but doesn’t see anything.  Steve and I are being very careful not to talk above a whisper, while in the room.  Morgan is still sleeping in our closet with her puppy, unless she sleeps at a friend’s house.

Thinking back on what happened last summer I can see there were so many signs, and so many warnings that I was receiving from my intuition – it was trying to tell me there was danger, and what I should do…but I didn’t listen to my intuition – I listened to other people’s advice.  Morgan’s dad and I thought we were coming up with “logical” solutions to this problem, and we had no idea how bad this problem really was.  Now today, Morgan’s dad, Steve, and I are left with a deep, deep hurt that will never go away.  It hurts every day.  We try to put on a happy face, and go on with our lives, but when we are alone, or with each other, we break down and weep, and try not to think about how we failed Morgan.  We never thought last year, in August of 2011, that in four months our youngest child, Morgan, would be dead because of her stalker.  We never thought the justice system could fail our daughter, and us so miserably.  Now our life’s mission is clear, get justice for Morgan, raise awareness, and save others.  I just wish we could have saved Morgan!

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