Serial Stalkers
Although many victims of stalking may feel that their stalkers have chosen them because they represent something unique and desirable, and that the stalker is fixated on and possessed with only them, this often isn’t the case. Detectives often find that if a complete background investigation is made into the stalkers past there are often other cases of prior stalkings.
What percentage of stalkers are serial stalkers? Experts say that more than half of the stalkers in America have been involved in prior incidents of stalking. Psychiatrists cannot accurately predict when the behavior will stop or re-occur but they know that about two-thirds of those showing obsessive behavior have had prior episodes.
Far too often, a look in into the past actions of a stalker can be a frightening glimpse into how the present stalking will end.
Frustrated serial stalkers don’t have to have had an intimate relationship before they begin stalking their victim, and they may even stalk more than one victim of the same household at the same time.
Although stalking victims may desperately want to know why they were chosen as the victim, what they might have done to trigger a stalker’s obsession with them, often, they find the answer is nothing.
They are just one of a serial stalker’smany victims. These stalkers are simply following a pattern of behavior they have practiced for years. No matter what the reason or cause for the stalking, victims should be cautioned that serial stalkers in particular are very disturbed individuals.
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I have one of these. I worked with him. i googled him and he has 195 court cases listed on research sites. he is only 25. Trying to get the police involved in this is miserable and embarassing. I am 53 and they keep trying to make it about me, not him. He is the one that is crazy. He spread sexual rumors about me and i believe he has gotten me fired from several jobs. I don’t know what to do.
I am so sorry that you are dealing with this horrible, horrible stalking. I will send you an email with some suggestions with organizations you can contact, as well as some suggestions as to other things to try. Above all please stay safe, keep a detailed timeline, call your local law enforcement every single time there is an incident (even though you feel embarrassed – it is important, it will help you build a case), keep copies of all the officers cards in your timeline, contact your District Attorney’s office to see if they have any kind of cyber-enforcement unit. Hang in there – I will email you shortly.