It’s infuriating to lay out the facts, show people the truth, and still watch them cling to a story they’ve already decided to believe. You keep thinking, Surely this will change their minds. But for some people, the truth doesn’t matter if it threatens what they want to believe. They’ll dismiss what’s right in front of them—and damn the damage that does.
Back in August of 2011, when our 19-year-old daughter, Morgan, was being stalked, we had no idea what to do or where to turn.
Morgan was afraid to go outside without pepper spray—especially after dark—because she feared she would be assaulted.
She was even afraid to sleep in her own bed, terrified that her stalker might be hiding underneath it. Eventually, she removed the bed frame and placed her mattress directly on the floor so there would be nowhere for anyone to hide.
We became hypervigilant—constantly looking over our shoulders, listening for every sound, and trying to anticipate every possible vulnerability.
The emotional and physical toll was almost impossible to describe. Unless you have lived through that kind of relentless fear—inside the very place where you are supposed to feel safest—you cannot fully understand what it does to a person.
This is the reality of stalking. It does not merely frighten its victims. It steals their sleep, their freedom, their sense of safety, and their peace.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!
Stalking is a crime of power and control.
Many victims minimize what’s happening, just like Morgan did
Always trust your instincts
Sharing this video/podcast from The Security Nurse Podcast Website:thesecuritynursepodcast.com with her interview with Dr. Nathan Brooks about stalking. Website: https://www.drnathanbrooks.com
This is a very informative discussion, and one that I think is important to listen to. Let me know what you think.
They wrote in the description: In this conversation, Dr. Nathan Brooks, a forensic psychologist, discusses the complexities of stalking, particularly in healthcare settings. He defines stalking as a form of targeted violence and explores its various characteristics, types of stalkers, and the psychological factors that drive such behavior. In this conversation, Sarah-Marie Baumgartner and Nathan Brooks discuss the complexities of stalking, particularly in healthcare settings, and the importance of understanding the context and motivations behind stalking incidents. Dr. Brooks emphasizes the need for effective threat assessment and victim support to address this multifaceted issue. They explore the vulnerabilities of survivors and perpetrators, and the need for structured care plans. The discussion also highlights the evolving nature of stalking in the digital age, the significance of early intervention, and the necessity of educating both victims and the public about stalking behaviors. This is an episode for anyone wanting to learn more about stalking and how to manage the situation.