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If you haven’t visited Morgan’s Stalking Facebook page yet, I hope you’ll take a look.

I share my blog posts there, along with other important information about stalking. I’ll also be posting reels in the near future. So much more to come. This is a great page for you to interact with others who have had their lives changed because of a stalker.

When I started the FB page in 2012, my goal was to raise awareness about the dangers of stalking and share Morgan’s story, along with the stories of other victims. Over the years, the page grew, just as this blog did. So many people have visited and shared their own experiences. It means a great deal to me that victims of stalking have felt they had a place to go and people who would understand.

If you haven’t already, please visit the page. And to everyone who has followed and supported it over the years, thank you. Your support means more than you know.

 

 

 

You can lead a horse to water…

It’s infuriating to lay out the facts, show people the truth, and still watch them cling to a story they’ve already decided to believe. You keep thinking, Surely this will change their minds. But for some people, the truth doesn’t matter if it threatens what they want to believe. They’ll dismiss what’s right in front of them—and damn the damage that does.

A Short Recap of the Stalking…

 

Back in August of 2011, when our 19-year-old daughter, Morgan, was being stalked, we had no idea what to do or where to turn. 

  • Stalking fact: More than all victims of stalking indicated that they were stalked before the age of 25, and nearly 1 in 4 were stalked before the age of 18.
  • We did not know why or who was doing this. In my naivety, I thought only famous people were stalked. Our daughter was scared; we were scared for her, and also very angry, only wanting to protect and keep her safe.
  • For 4 months, we did not have a full night’s sleep. The stalker kept waking us up. We were afraid to leave the house unoccupied, fearing the stalker would break in while we were gone. Morgan was afraid to go outside without pepper spray for fear of being assaulted, especially after dark. Morgan was afraid of going to bed and having her stalker hide under her bed, so she took her bed off the frame and dropped it onto the floor so there was nowhere to hide… We all became hyper-vigilant, always looking over our shoulders, anticipating every vulnerability.
  • We did everything we could think of to keep her safe. We set up safety protocols, put up cameras, motion detectors, and called the sheriff’s office at all times of the day & night, every time something happened. I kept a detailed log of every incident. It became a felony stalking case, but after only 4 months, she was found dead, and my world was shattered. I was no longer the same, and never would be again. There are no words to explain the feeling of losing a child and feeling like there had to be something else I could have done to save her. Morgan was now a victim of stalking, and my husband and I were left to be the survivors of that stalking.

We Lived in Constant Fear—The Physical and Emotional Toll of Being Hypervigilant 24/7

 

Morgan was afraid to go outside without pepper spray—especially after dark—because she feared she would be assaulted.

She was even afraid to sleep in her own bed, terrified that her stalker might be hiding underneath it. Eventually, she removed the bed frame and placed her mattress directly on the floor so there would be nowhere for anyone to hide.

We became hypervigilant—constantly looking over our shoulders, listening for every sound, and trying to anticipate every possible vulnerability.

The emotional and physical toll was almost impossible to describe. Unless you have lived through that kind of relentless fear—inside the very place where you are supposed to feel safest—you cannot fully understand what it does to a person.

This is the reality of stalking. It does not merely frighten its victims. It steals their sleep, their freedom, their sense of safety, and their peace.

It Is NOT The Victim’s Fault

IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!

Stalking is a crime of power and control.

Many victims minimize what’s happening, just like Morgan did

Always trust your instincts