TODAY ON ELECTION DAY…remember to VOTE!

 

In Eleanor Roosevelt’s response to UN appointment on December 22, 1945 she said, “In the end, as Wendell Wilkie said, we are “One World” and that which injures any one of us, injures all of us.”

Today is election day here in the U.S. and we need to embrace this gift we have been given to use our voice and VOTE – individually we are just one out of many, but if all of us “ones” stand up for what we believe then that is when true change can happen.  Your “one” voice is extremely important.

This is not only true on election day, but it is also holds true in your everyday life. We are one world and stalking occurs, not only in the US, but everywhere, in every country. This blog has had more than 8 million views, in over 115 countries around the world since I started it.  I have been contacted by stalking victims and survivors from so many different countries that i have lost count.

The one common thread that I always hear is that these victims are frightened for their life, and they wish someone would believe them…sounds simple, but it is not always so simple. Friends, neighbors, family members, even law enforcement, many times try to minimize the situation – what I would like everyone to remember is that stalking is dangerous – it is obsessive behavior that puts the target of that obsession in real danger. The best thing you can do for a victim of stalking is to BELIEVE and try to help in any way you can. Stopping a stalker in the very beginning of the stalking can save lives.

So please remember, we are one world when it comes to so many things, and all of us can make a difference, even if it is in the life of just one other person…”that which injures any one of us, injures all of us.”  Let’s put an end to stalking – let’s vote for people who will be tough on crime, and help put through tougher laws in order to protect victims.

Circumstances created who I am today…I will never be the same person I was before Morgan was stalked & murdered…

FOR ANYONE READING THIS, WHO MAY QUESTION WHY I WOULD ACCUSE SOMEONE OF BEING A STALKER…READ ABOVE FOR YOURSELF, MORGAN WAS STALKED & THERE WAS A SUSPECT – MORGAN WAS ALSO MURDERED, AND NO MATTER HOW HARD  YOU MAY TRY TO PRETEND IT DIDN’T HAPPEN – IT DID.

MORGAN WILL GET JUSTICE, BECAUSE I WILL NEVER STOP PUSHING FOR JUSTICE!

It is true – circumstances created who I am today, and I will never be the same person I was before my daughter was stalked & murdered…how could I be? My youngest child was murdered – there is no “moving on,” or “getting over it.” Nothing can “fix” my heartache. I have had to learn to continue to live without Morgan. Her father Steve, has had to learn to live without Morgan, as well as her sister and brother, grandparents, Aunts & Uncles, cousins, niece & nephew, friends and soulmates. And why? All because a sick and horrible monster decided to take her life.

Now we are getting closer to the holidays…those are some of the worst times. Everything I see, everything I cook, everything I do, reminds me of Morgan. From pomegranates to Nosa yogurt, all Morgan’s favorite foods tug at my heart. Seeing snow on the mountain top reminds me of Morgan saying, “Mom, look at the mountain, she changes every day and she is so beautiful.” I could go on and on about every single little thing that makes my heart feel like it’s being crushed, while I try so hard to keep from crying.

I know I am not alone, many other parents of murdered children feel the same way I do. It is one of the most extreme traumas any parent can experience, and it changes you forever. There is anger and deep pain.

I want justice for my precious daughter Morgan for many reasons, and one of those reasons is because I can’t bear the thought of another family going through what our family has gone through if and when Morgan’s murderer has the opportunity to kill again…so I continue on every day with my fight for justice…there really is no other choice, just like I am sure you would do if it were your daughter. Please pray for justice.

#JusticeForMorgan!

The Morgan Tree…

These are pictures of the tree with a plaque that was planted in Morgan’s honor – the pictures were taken way back in 2013 – I have not seen the tree since then. I hope it is growing strong, and in the Spring it will give shaded respite to those who rest underneath it with their precious fur babies…it was planted at the dog park where Morgan used to bring her puppy Wylah May.

I Will ALWAYS Remember Morgan’s Loving Heart…she made sure she told the people she loved how much she loved them, yes, even every day when she was saying goodbye, or ending a call over the phone, she never missed the opportunity to let people know how she felt – Morgan was pure love and my heart misses her so very much.

 

VICTIMS & THEIR FAMILY & PETS BECOME FURTHER VICTIMS…

AEQUITAS

They work hard to hold offenders accountable & promote victim safety

“Typically the perpetrator harrasses and attacks the victims and victim’s family
Often the Offender’s family members and friends attack (they say don’t snitch to others),”  This has all happened in our case and to this day we are still being attacked.

“When members of the criminal justice system do not respond appropriately to intimidation and fail to correct system deficiencies that enable opportunities to intimidate they become inadvertent accomplices to the intimidators.”  This is also very true in our case – very sad, but very true…

“The victim, victim’s or witness’ immediate family, including spouses, children and pets become targets.” AEQUITAS, https://aequitasresource.org In our case even supporters of justice for Morgan have become targets…extremely outrageous behavior by the people involved in the murder and cover-up of our daughter’s murder!

Changes need to be made – #JusticeForMorgan & #JusticeForAllVictims