Misconceptions? NO – Just Misdirection & Lies…

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It’s so strange when I hear people tell me that they read somewhere on the “internet” completely false things about Morgan’s case, and they want to know my side of the “story.”  I’m glad they ask, but what they are reading on the internet is really false information from people who didn’t even know Morgan, or our family, or any of the true facts of her case, and not only is what is written stated as fact, but stated with certainty!  So many distortions, misstatements, and outright lies, it screams of agenda, just as the actions of the Garfield County sheriff & coroner do.  And please do not think for one moment in time that I am against law enforcement, no absolutely not…I truly believe law enforcement has a tough job and most law enforcement agents are good honest people that believe in what they are sworn to do in their job.  They are the unsung heroes that are out there every day trying to protect the citizens in their towns, but just like in all other walks of life there are good people and bad people and when you have the head of any company or agency that has an agenda those under him or her can either go along (even when they know it is wrong) or they can leave…obedient workers?

I thought I was revealing enough details about what happened during Morgan’s stalking and murder, all the while being so careful not to expose all the details about her case, the details only the stalker, his accomplice(s) and the murderer and his accomplice(s) would know.  I was confident that most people would understand the truth and I believe they do understand.  Especially victims of stalking, they know what it’s like to live the nightmare, and they can empathize with what Morgan went through.

But when I hear some of these  ludicrous statements I have to realize that some people will never agree with the truth about what Morgan was forced to go through. They can’t, because they have an agenda, even though it’s not the truth.  I’ve been assured it is a very small group of the same people and I believe they are related to the suspects – these people traverse the internet to sling mud at Morgan, and her memory.  If somehow Morgan was wrong then the stalker was not?  Or the people who helped him are not?  Victim blaming does happen and it is NEVER right.  To me it only shows how quilt riddled some are, to endlessly defame Morgan with lies, as if that will somehow change the criminal acts perpetrated upon her.

I also understand that there are bullies out there can’t resist attacking people over the internet, while hiding behind their computer screens, with their anonymous profiles, so I do not feel like it’s just happening only to Morgan and her case, because I see it happening to others who did nothing wrong except to be the victim of crime.  Morgan’s story attracted a lot of attention, and that was one of our goals, to raise awareness through her story and to be a voice for so many other victims.  So if speaking out for victims attracts some bullies then that is something I will live with.

Morgan should not be gone from this world – she should be away at college studying law like she had planned.  But because of a predatory stalker, and an inept sheriff, along with her parents (Steve & I) who didn’t understand that we had to get her away immediately in order to save her –  it became a perfect storm of life-changing proportions.  Saving others from that same fate is of such great importance to us now that a few bullies are not going to change anything.

Bashing those who support Morgan, as so many have, is yet another ploy.  Both forensic professionals and private citizens stepping forward to help have all been accused of being paid – based upon what knowledge?  It is a lie, plain and simple, a lie which proves the desperation of the guilty.  Every person who has helped in Morgan’s case has done so from the generosity of their hearts.  And every one has helped without any charge.  Oh I have offered, in some instances, to pay for services, but every single time those helping Morgan have absolutely declined to be compensated in any way for their assistance.  In fact the answer I usually get from those helping is, “It’s just the right thing to do.”  When I hear this I always break down and cry…tears of intense gratitude.

So why would you accuse people, trying to help achieve justice for a young woman so wronged, of being paid when they are not?  Why is it so important to attack good people?  That is the real question here, why is it so important to make up stories about Morgan and the search for justice?  Is it because they are afraid of the truth?

I have decided to address some of the cruel and utterly untrue things people have said on the internet.  This will be part 1 of a 4 part series in which I will address some of these lies. Stay tuned – more to come.  And as always, thank you for listening.

Do You Ever Have A “Gut feeling”, “Sixth sense,” “Premonition” Or Even “Deja-Vu” To Describe Your Experiences?

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Share your story right here on this blog.  You can be a guest blogger.  Your story can help others that have had similar experiences.  How many times has your “gut feeling,” sixth sense,” or “premonition” saved you?

The late Apple founder Steve Jobs challenged us to “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, because everything else is secondary.”

When you’re confused, listen to that little voice in your head. I know, it’s easier said than done, but when your heart and your head are sending you mixed signals, then maybe it’s time to hear what an objective voice has to say.  An important thing I always try to suggest to other victims of stalking is to listen to your intuition…it is there to help protect you.  If you feel that you are in danger, then most likely you are – get help, get to somewhere safe.

Many law enforcement agents, police detectives, F.B.I. agents, etc. have followed their “gut” or “intuition” or whatever you choose to call it, in order to solve a case.  Most of these agents are the ones that have the most case closures and tend to rise up in the ranks in their departments.  People often ask how they can do what they do…it’s because they know how to listen to their “gut feeling,” “premonition,” “intuition.”  It’s like a little “voice” or a “flash” or a “knowing” that something is not quite right with what you are seeing or an “idea” about what might have really happened.  It gives them that extra help they need.  They follow their “hunch” all the way through, and just like any clue this usually leads them to the answers they seek.

Officer Ally Jacobs said, “When you see something, say something; don’t be afraid to take risks.  We (law enforcement) are sometimes afraid to act because of liability or cynicism or some other excuse; but why would we ignore our instincts?  Be thorough, do your job.  We need to put our egos aside and cooperate with each other.”  Officer Jacobs is the officer that saved Jaycee Lee Dugard and her two young daughters. http://www.policeone.com/women-officers/articles/5589058-Following-your-gut-Officers-hunch-saves-kidnapping-victim/

Then you have cases like the disappearance and murder of Long Valley, N.J. high school student Rachel Domas.  The detective in charge, Gary Micco, joined forces with psychic Nancy Weber, against his superior’s orders Micco asked Nancy to help him find the killer, who by then had disappeared.  Nancy told Detective Micco what she “saw” –  “I see a man … he’s very narrow and thin … everything about him is … miserable … has lots of anger … terror and darkness … I see Rachel looking very nervous … he walks behind her (in the woods road) … he’s dragging her into the woods … yes I see this man attacking her … I see a struggle … it’s horrific … I see a uniform … he worked in gas station … his name is Michael … this Michael has taken overdose of pills … (police asked the psychic to draw a map of where to find the suspect) …You are going to get him soon …” (Police catch the suspect …he was in the hospital being treated for overdose of pills; he confessed to killing Rachel …he was convicted and sentenced to life imprisonment.  Police officer said the map the psychic drew for them was accurate.

Detective Micco said psychic Nancy Weber was on the money (accurate) with her predictions … “She was amazingly accurate and very helpful in terms of bringing this case to a conclusion.”

http://www.nytimes.com/1985/09/17/nyregion/ex-gas-station-attendant-charged-with-slaying-girl.html

So in many cases the “seen” and “unseen” can lead investigators to find missing persons and solve cold case homicides.  I believe that in all these type of cases we should utilize all the different type of methods to look for clues in order to resolve a case.  In my opinion a credible, ethical psychic should be viewed as just another credible witness…as having something for the detective to follow up on.  If the detective follows up on the “clues” or “information” given by the psychic and it leads him to the evidence then it is a great thing wouldn’t you think?  Why wouldn’t we all want to use or own intuition, or the intuition from a psychic in order to save a missing person or solve a heinous crime?

Please Share…Northern Colorado Crime Stoppers on Facebook

heartwood_2Please share this link. Morgan’s reward poster is the first one as you scroll down their page. Thank you all so much for all your efforts in helping Morgan find justice!

http://www.nococrimestoppers.com/?page_id=18

Colorado does care…why?  Because it’s the right thing to do.  There are people in Colorado that really care and are trying to help.  We are extremely grateful for all of their help.  LOVE to all.

Another story to share…

Kathy is a survivor of domestic violence from SOAR, Sisters Overcoming Abusive Relationships. In the link below you will see a video that premiered during Financial Literacy Month, Kathy pays it forward so that they can create a Rhode Island where domestic violence does not exist. ‪#‎PreventDV‬

This would also be considered stalking…another violent and controlling form of stalking. Just because she once dated him doesn’t change the fact that he stalked and abused her. It is horrible and happens all too often. Kathy is extremely lucky she had such a wonderful family and support system.  Remember to always listen to the victim – try to help.  The victim is NEVER to blame – it is the criminal that is to blame. And Kathy is right…together we can change the odds. Share your story.

Share Your Story…

Remember eveshare your story pleaseryone…share your story, shout it out, and say it clear, so the whole world can hear – why – because your story is important, and it just may help save another person.

There are so many others going through similar horrifying situations, and the more we share, the more solutions and attention to the seriousness of stalking will be created.  So please, please share.  I know it’s hard…I have tried to share as well, and there are still things I will not reveal to the general public at this time.  And that’s okay – you don’t have to share your name or the place you are from, just what you have experienced or are experiencing, and what has happened in your situation.  What isn’t working, what has worked, who has helped you, what help you may need from others, or what suggestions you have for others.  It’s all important.

“For a community to be whole and healthy, it must be based on people’s love and concern for each other.” ~ Millard Fuller