How to Report Stalking to Police

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To report stalking to the police in any state in the U.S., document the stalking behavior, gather evidence, and contact your local law enforcement agency. You can file a report in person or online, depending on the agency’s procedures. stalking.org

Steps to Report Stalking

Reporting stalking involves several key steps.

  • Document the behavior — Keep a detailed record of incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions of the stalking behavior. Click here for a printable stalking log https://www.stalkingawareness.org/documentation-log/  Go to this link for more information and how to document & log the incident. https://www.stalking.org/blog/how-to-report-stalking
  • Gather evidence — Collect any relevant evidence such as text messages, emails, voice messages, screenshots, social media posts, or photographs that support your case. Video from cameras outside that can be saved to the Cloud can help. If the stalker leaves anything, i.e., a bouquet of dead flowers, etc., photograph it with the time and date that you saw it and put it in your documentation. Some people do not understand the lethal threat behind such “gifts.”
  • Contact local law enforcement — Reach out to your local police department to file a report; many agencies allow online submissions. Remember that it is imperative to call every single time there is an incident; ask for an officer to come to you to document the incident, along with your own documentation. Always get a case number and ask if they will open a felony stalking case for you. Sometimes, agencies will wait until the incident count is over a certain number of times before they will open a felony stalking case and assign a detective to your case.
  • Provide a clear timeline — When filing the report, present a chronological account of the stalking incidents to help law enforcement understand the situation. Try to remain calm, breathe, and make it clear to the officer how the incident made you feel: scared, frightened, worried, hyper-vigilant, isolated, whatever your feelings are at the time. The emotional impact of a stalking incident is crucial for understanding the victim’s experience and the broader context of the case. Feelings of fear, anxiety, and helplessness can significantly affect a victim’s mental health and daily life, influencing their decisions and actions during legal proceedings.https://survivors.org/the-impact-of-stalking/
  • Follow up — After filing the report, stay in touch with the police for updates on your case and any further actions you may need to take. https://www.usa.gov/report-crime

One of my favorite warriors on this planet, Rob Wells, is launching the CASE BOOK podcast…watch below

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Denver 7 News about the new podcast that is aimed at solving cold cases, along with the help of AI. is launching the CASE BOOK podcast to solve cold cases with the help of AI, and yes, Morgan’s case will be one of the cases shown.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pQEXBwWPTpo

Stalking Clearly Demonstrates a Single-Minded, Compulsive, Premeditated Intent to Cause Harm & Distress

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Stalking is a chronic stressor that exerts a profound psychological toll on victims, often resulting in complex and multifaceted mental health impacts. Because stalking is frequently characterized by unpredictability and long durations rather than a single event, victims often endure sustained trauma that persists long after the harassment ends.

What are the psychological effects of stalking on victims? Stalking creates a sustained state of hypervigilance, leading to severe and multifaceted psychological consequences for victims. Approximately 92% of stalking victims report experiencing one or more psychological impacts, often comparable to or exceeding the toll of other forms of interpersonal victimization.

How does long-term stalking trauma manifest as post-traumatic stress disorder?
Long-term stalking trauma frequently manifests as post-traumatic stress disorder because the relentless, unpredictable nature of the harassment prevents the nervous system from ever reaching a state of safety. Unlike single-event traumas, stalking acts as a chronic stressor that keeps the body in a prolonged survival mode, often leading to deep-seated psychological and somatic impacts that persist long after the stalking has ended.
What are the specific symptoms of complex PTSD in stalking survivors?

Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) in stalking survivors manifests as a combination of core PTSD symptoms and additional persistent challenges related to self-concept, emotional regulation, and interpersonal functioning. Because stalking is a form of chronic, unpredictable trauma, it can leave the nervous system trapped in a state of high alert, resulting in a unique clinical picture that goes beyond the symptoms  of traditional PTSD.

🧠 Mental and Emotional Toll

The psychological impact of stalking is deeply destructive because of its unpredictability and long duration, which distinguishes it from isolated traumatic events. Victims often navigate a complex landscape of trauma that disrupts their internal emotional stability
and their external social interactions.
  • Emotional volatility — Victims frequently report feelings of being scared, humiliated, embarrassed, distrustful of others, and experiencing intense anger or hatred.
  • Traumatic stress — Individuals experience all core PTSD symptom clusters, including intrusive thoughts, avoidance behaviors, negative cognitions, and persistent hyperarousal.
  • Social withdrawal — Many victims isolate themselves from friends, family, and community activities due to feelings of shame or the belief that their experiences will not be believed.
  • Suicidal ideation — Survivors of stalking report
    significantly higher rates of suicidal ideation than survivors of other interpersonal crimes, reflecting the specific weight of this victimization.
These emotional burdens often persist long after the stalking behavior itself has ceased, requiring professional intervention to manage.

🏥 Physical and Functional Consequences

The emotional distress caused by stalking manifests in both physical health complications and severe disruptions to daily life. The chronic nature of the stress leads to physical symptoms that can interfere with a victim’s ability to maintain employment or attend to daily tasks.

  • Health conditions — Compared to non-victims, those who are stalked report higher rates of chronic pain, frequent headaches, irritable bowel syndrome, and asthma. The stress and anxiety they are put through is very detrimental to their health.
  • Sleep disruption — Many victims struggle with difficulty falling asleep, waking frequently due to hyperarousal, and suffering from recurring nightmares, which amplifies anxiety and emotional reactivity.
  • Functional impairment — The intrusion of stalking into daily
    life often results in lost time from work and, in many cases, necessitates moving to a new residence to regain a sense of safety. Some parents have moved their entire family out of the country to keep them safe.
  • Distrust and isolation — Approximately 44% of victims report becoming highly distrustful or suspicious of others, which can permanently alter their ability to form or maintain healthy relationships, and this may last years after the stalking ends.
Addressing these impacts typically requires a comprehensive approach, including therapy such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and engagement with peer support groups to help mitigate feelings of helplessness.

The Idaho Four Case: Exploring Parallels with Patterns Seen in Stalking Cases

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Prosecutors said they had no evidence that Kohberger knew the victims. Stalking should not be presented as a fact in the Idaho Four case, but I would like you to think about the parallels with patterns that are seen in other stalking cases. 

  • Watching someone and learning their routines. Following, watching, or repeatedly appearing where someone lives, works, or socializes are recognized stalking behaviors. A comparison could examine surveillance—but should not claim Kohberger monitored the victims’ routines without verified evidence. Understanding the Serious Crime of Stalking
  • Monitoring someone online. Stalking can involve tracking activities through social media, electronic devices, or location applications. However, claims that Kohberger followed the victims on social media were disputed in court and should not be repeated as fact. justice.gov
  • Looking at the entire pattern. An unwanted message, an unexplained appearance, or someone waiting nearby can seem disconnected when considered separately. Stalking involves a course of conduct, making the relationship between incidents essential to understanding what happened. Understanding the Serious Crime of Stalking
  • The potential for lethal violence. Stalking can be dangerous and potentially lethal. That makes prevention an important discussion, but a homicide alone does not establish that stalking preceded it. Office of Justice Programs
  • Separating evidence from assumptions. The Idaho case illustrates why this matters: public claims about stalking circulated despite prosecutors saying evidence did not support those claims. I assume this was because some of the evidence showed that Kohberger drove by the residence multiple times before the murders, and Kaylee Goncalves, 21, one of the four victims, said she believed she spotted someone stalking her from the tree line outside the house at 1122 King Road. These reasons, along with the quote below from a Fox News article, lead me to understand why people would feel like stalking was involved in this case. (https://www.foxnews.com/us/idaho-murder-documents-reveal-victims-stalking-fears-kohbergers-inappropriate-behavior-school).  We need to take stalking seriously while keeping documented facts, unanswered questions, and theories clearly distinguished.

    “Mark my words, I work with predators. If we give him a Ph.D., that’s the guy that in that many years when he is a professor, we will hear is harassing, stalking, and sexually abusing…his students at wherever university…“

    — Quote attributed to an unnamed WSU professor of Bryan Kohberger’s

How is it possible that it has been almost 15 Years Since Morgan Was Murdered?

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It’s true… it has been almost 15 years since that horrific morning—the morning I found my 20-year-old daughter’s body.

I went into shock. Real shock. I had no idea what had happened to her. As crime scene tape went up around our home, I kept asking myself—and everyone around me—how she could be dead.

Of course, my first thought was: Had her stalker gotten into our house? But that possibility was so horrifying that I could barely bring myself to consider it. To me, it meant we had failed to keep her safe. I know now that the responsibility belongs to whoever harmed her, never to the family trying desperately to protect her.

The detective said there were no signs of forced entry, and I believed him. I have since learned that the absence of forced entry does not mean someone could not have entered. But in those first devastating hours, I clung to the hope that it couldn’t have been her stalker.

Then came the other questions. Had someone slipped something into her water bottle when she briefly visited friends before coming home? Had the relentless fear, stress, and exhaustion driven her to take something that caused an overdose? I was searching for an explanation while struggling to comprehend the unimaginable.

But questions must be answered by evidence.

After reviewing the laboratory results, photographs, videos, and written records, I do not believe the evidence supports natural causes—the coroner’s original determination—or suicide, the determination on her amended death certificate. Nor do I believe it supports an accidental death.

Everything I have reviewed has led me to one conclusion: Morgan’s life was taken, and she fought damn hard to survive. Her death was not a failure of strength. She deserved to be safe. She deserved to live.

My conviction comes from the evidence I have spent years examining and the questions that remain unanswered. Others may dispute my conclusions, but I will continue demanding a full accounting of what happened to my daughter.

Nearly 15 years have passed. My love for Morgan has not faded, and neither has my determination to seek justice.

I will keep bringing the evidence forward. I will keep asking the hard questions. And I will never stop fighting for Morgan.