A Christmas Long Ago With Morgan & TC…

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Morgan & TC
MERRY CHRISTMAS EVE TO YOU…this is my memory of a Christmas long ago.  I know I won’t be able to post a blog tomorrow on Christmas day so I decided to post this one today on Christmas Eve.

This is another happy memory…Morgan & I went down to the ranch to celebrate the Christmas with Morgan’s horse TC.  He LOVED all the attention.  We gave him his Christmas carrots, and lots of brushing, hugs, and kisses.  Morgan loved to place her face against his neck to feel his warmth, and calm.  TC is a very magical horse.

Today and tomorrow are hard days for myself, as well as our whole family, but I try to remember all these magical moments with Morgan, and that keeps me grateful and happy.  Wishing you many magical moments on this very special day.  Wishing for more love, peace and truth in 2016 for all of us.

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Cover-up – why do people think cover-up?

seamless-crime-law-or-legal-background-tile-texture-with-lots-of-icons-of-different-itemLet’s start with what is a cover-up?  Whenever someone mentions a cover-up immediately my mind wonders what are they talking about…so I looked up all the definitions about what constitutes a cover-up and here is a very easy explanation that you can read on http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cover-up

A cover-up is an attempt, whether successful or not, to conceal evidence of wrongdoing, error, incompetence or other embarrassing information.  In a passive cover-up, information is simply not provided; in an active cover-up, deception is used.

Wikipedia goes on to say the expression is usually applied to people in positions of authority, in Morgan’s case that would be the Garfield County Sheriff Lou Vallario, Detective Rob Glassmire (on an aside you should know Detective Glassmire is now the Garfield County Coroner), Forensic Pathologist Robert Kurtzman, as well as the then Garfield County Coroner Trey Holt, who abuse their power to avoid or silence criticism or to deflect guilt of wrongdoing.  Those who initiate a cover-up (for their allies) may be responsible for a misdeed, a breach of trust or duty or a crime.

While the terms are often used interchangeably, cover-up involves withholding incriminatory evidence, while whitewash involves releasing misleading evidence.  In our daughter Morgan’s case what was done absolutely falls under the cover-up category (passive as well as active) even though there were also incidents that were done that can be considered a whitewash.  And the really frightening part of this is that I know the officials involved in this know exactly what they did and are continuing to do it…this now brings up criminal intent.

People ask me how Steve and I are able to fight against this kind of a cover-up.  Well it’s not easy – it has been extremely painful and very difficult.  An investigation into Morgan’s suspicious death should have been opened over three years ago, but it wasn’t, and ever since then there have been people involved in keeping information from us so we will give up, but we haven’t.  We have been able to investigate and get an incredible amount of evidence including motive…yes, I said motive.

This was a flawed investigation, mishandled from the start, and as the District Attorney Sherry Caloia said, “It was botched.”  As Morgan’s parents we would like to know why our questions were never answered, why our requests (certified, and sent to all) were never fulfilled, and why the coroner choose to cover up Morgan’s true manner of death.  We want justice for our daughter Morgan Jennifer Ingram, plain and simple – something every victim of stalking and murder deserves.  Lately I have been reading about sheriff’s deputies testifying in cases where it was proven to be a cover-up.  They testify about the “code of silence” in law enforcement and now rank-and-file officers are facing charges and those in charge are being indicted on obstruction charges.  Maybe the seeds of change are starting to sprout.

Morgan was murdered in cold blood, it was a premeditated murder that was executed in order to silence a witness, and she deserved an investigation into her murder – not a cover up of her murder!  Morgan’s stalking and murder is an act of domestic terrorism in my opinion.  We want justice for Morgan and we do not want her stalker/murderer to get away with this crime.  If Morgan’s case can not be a case then I fear for other victims of stalking victims – if their stalker can just kill them and then it’s case over then there is no future for them.  If the Garfield County Sheriff’s department can just shake their head and slam the door and sweep Morgan’s stalking and murder under the rug by misrepresenting the facts of her case then what is the remedy?  Where can families turn?

In the meantime our journey hasn’t been without sacrifices.  We are still being stalked – we have been since Morgan’s death.  We didn’t realize it until a few months after her murder.  Then after this blog came out the stalking escalated.  And then 15 months after her death our stalking became physically damaging. But who were we supposed to turn to?  Obviously not the Garfield County sheriffs.  So 2 years after Morgan’s murder we faced that pivotal moment…we realized that we had to move out of Colorado (our home) and enter the Victim’s Address Confidentiality Program in another state.  I did not want to do this.  I wanted to dig my heals in and stand my ground, but some very wise experts told us it was better to move and continue our fight then to end up dead with no one left to fight for justice for Morgan…so we left.  And so we continue our fight.  Staying in the state of Colorado was not an option, because in Colorado that program is run by the sheriffs.  We felt at that time the sheriffs were possibly involved in a cover-up, and we had no idea how deep it went, so we could not take any chances…we were told to get to a safe place, and we did.

It has been life-changing & much too hard to think that anyone else could continue on in the lead for the fight for justice.  The advice I received finally convinced me to no longer allow my own ego to get in the way of doing the right thing.  I am grateful for the opportunity to have such wise people in my life.

To this day we are still being stalked – this is easily ascertained by looking at all the anonymous websites & blogs on the internet dedicated to spreading mistruths about Morgan, her family and the events of Morgan’s stalking and murder.  These people come on every & any forum that mentions Morgan’s case or her name and attack – they attack under fake profiles.  We are continually thwarting the attempts to “hack” into our lives.  I guess this small group of co-conspirators must have a lot of time on their hands, or they have convinced themselves that they need to do everything they can to make sure Morgan’s death is not investigated.  Because they know if it is investigated the person(s) they are protecting will be convicted and the people involved in the cover-up can be indicted.  So for these people it is a matter of life & death.

I am convinced this is only a small group of family & friends of the criminal(s), but they create fake accounts and pretend to be many more people.  It is interesting because for the last few years the wording and comments that are made on the different forums are always the same, so you can tell the same people are writing them.  This is just another form of stalking – it’s called cyber-stalking, and that is a crime as well.

I also constantly get spoofed calls and text messages on my cell phone, even though I have changed my phone number.  But I must say that all the cyber-stalking, bullying and threats will not deter me from my path.  When I wake up every single morning I have a sense of purpose in my heart & no one can take that away from me – no one.  I have been extremely blessed to have so many wonderful people come into my life over the last few years.  People that have joined in our fight for truth and justice.

A little idea to think about today…Kindness is like a cat.  When you give it away it usually comes back.  Wouldn’t it be nice if all these mean hearted people used all their energies to spread kindness instead of hate and lies?

 

Who Polices the Police?

whowillprotectfrompolice copyAnother Colorado case that has been treated the same way as our daughter Morgan’s case.  The police and sheriffs departments in Colorado need accountability and right now that does not exist.  If law enforcement is allowed to repress and cover up the facts in a capital crime this is a problem for the whole state of Colorado.  There needs to be accountability.  There needs to be transparency and checks and balances, which at this time Colorado does not have.  Who in Colorado is responsible to make sure corruption does not go unchecked in Colorado?

This article is talking about the Kelsie Schelling case in Pueblo, CO.  http://southerncoloradoindependent.com/who-polices-police/

The article states that police officers say that the “higher ups” including Chief Velez and two of three top commanders including MacLaughlan, who publicly misreported facts about the Kelsie Schelling case, and Troy Davenport are causing so much trouble that its humiliating for those just trying to do their jobs.  This is what I have been trying to convey to people about Morgan’s case as well – when things like this happen within a department the good officers suffer because of the deeds of the bad officers.  The public loses faith in law enforcement, then there is less communication between the public and law enforcement, the trust is eroded and the job of law enforcement becomes all that much harder and dangerous for the good officers.  Public trust is imperative so Colorado needs to care about what is going on in these small rural counties and cities!

Quote from the article, “The machine is broken which accommodates corruption,” said a local citizen to Paulson. “It’s not even about the people in the department although some are causing more trouble than others. The machine needs to be corrected with more checks and balances.”

Let us all be aware of what is happening and let us all be a part of the solution to correct and mend the broken parts of the system.

Creating An Effective Stalking Protocol

Creating An Effective Stalking Protocol researched and written by the National Center  for Victims of Crime in 2002.  During the project, the National Center, with the assistance of a diverse advisory board, developed a model protocol to help police agencies throughout the United States address stalking more effectively. Advisory board members included experts from law enforcement, victim services, and prosecution services.

Individual stalking incidents looked at in isolation often appear innocuous. But once identified as part of a pattern of behavior of unwanted contact imposed on the victim by the perpetrator, it’s another story. Whether they are linked to domestic violence or involve perpetrators who are acquaintances or strangers, stalking incidents become threatening and sinister, even in the absence of any overt threats to harm the victim. In a significant number of cases, stalking is in fact, a precursor to lethal violence.

The fear induced by stalking, the drastic way it disrupts victims’ lives, and the real dangers faced by many victims all demand effective intervention by law enforcement. Yet, stalking is exceptionally difficult to police–difficult to investigate, prosecute, and prevent–and the majority of police departments in the United States lack clearly defined policies to deal with it.

Traditional “reactive” policing is ill-suited to the challenges because it means waiting for something to happen and then responding. Where there is an ever-present risk that stalking will cross over into physical violence and victim safety and prevention are the priorities, such an approach inevitably falls short. Stalking by its nature calls for early intervention, preventive action, and proactive problem-solving. These are the hallmarks of community policing.  https://www.victimsofcrime.org/docs/src/creating-an-effective-stalking-protocol.pdf?sfvrsn=2

Wouldn’t this be a great start if all law enforcement agencies could have a National protocol that was taught to all their officers?

 

More Exciting News…A Book!

MorganreadingbookA while ago I had the honor of being interviewed by the author of many non fiction crime novels.  She was a wonderful person to talk to and was herself a victim of stalking at one time in her life.  She had read this blog and decided to contact me with a lot of really good questions.  Once the questions were answered she was able to really understand Morgan’s story.  I wish more people asked those type of questions.  Sometimes I think a reader may be a bit confused by what they have read and if they would only ask me the question then their confustion would end.

After my interview she wrote a chapter in her new book about Morgan’s stalking and murder.  The book has recently been released and I will be posting the information here soon for anyone that is interested in buying her book.  The printed book can be ordered from any bookshop and the ebooks can be bought directly through Amazon, Apple, Kobo etc.  Here is a description of the book given by her publisher:

From secretive online followers to jealous ex-lovers and obsessed admirers through to random strangers and crazed criminals, this unnerving book will provide an insight into the minds of stalkers, and reveal how their sinister actions affect their victims.

Victims and stalkers tell their stories – both in person and through court records, with a special section on royal stalkers and celebrity stalkers through the ages. More than one hundred real life case studies from around the world highlight the sometimes deadly, but always distressing, consequences.

I am so excited about her book.  I really believe this book will be another avenue in which the awareness of the seriousness of stalking will be raised.  Let’s all keep trying to raise awareness, keep vigilant, watch out for others, and keep safe.

The author wrote to me and said:

“I think your experience really helps to highlight the horror of the experience for all involved.”