She will not fail…because she will not give up!

askbelievereceive-nightlight-200x200The following was an email I received through this website just the other day.  As I was reading it I started to cry as it touched my very soul.  When I hear this it gives me the strength and fortitude to keep on fighting for justice for Morgan…the truth is ever present and I have to believe there are people in positions of authority in Colorado that want to allow that truth to be heard.  Change will come.

Hi Mr. and Mrs. Ingram, 

I first learned of your case from the episode of Suspicion on the ID Channel a couple weeks ago. Since then I have read your blog from start to finish. I don’t normally follow up on shows I see on the ID Channel, but I couldn’t get this out of my mind. I have never felt so angry or heartbroken for people I have never met. My heart absolutely aches for your family, and for Morgan herself. I wish I could help in some capacity–not sure what I could do from here, but if you think of anything, please let me know!  I just wanted to reach out to you and tell you that I am so sorry for what happened to your family, and that I truly believe that you WILL get justice. You are both so brave and so much more even-keeled than I would be in that situation. I admire your strength and fortitude so much! 

Morgan sounds like a tremendous person, and through your writing, I almost feel like I knew her. We have a lot in common, from taste in music to writing to a deep love for animals, but more importantly,  Morgan seems like the type of person we should all aspire to be– So giving and loving and joyful. Coincidentally, my best friend’s name is also Morgan, and she is my “soul mate,” and I chuckled to read that your Morgan also used that term with her friends. 

Also like Morgan, I was stalked when I was 20. Thankfully it was short-lived. While it did last, it was frightening, and the fear never leaves you, as I’m sure you know. 

Additionally, I have PTSD and severe depression from childhood trauma and while I am currently in therapy, it’s hard, and many days I am sorry to say I rue the day I was born… I only mention this because I thought you might like to know that now, after I have read your blog and all about how much Morgan loved life and took such joy in even the smallest things, I now realize how incredibly LUCKY I am just to be here, and Morgan has inspired me to try harder to enjoy the little things and appreciate every moment, and be grateful for it all, even the difficult things. So I thank you for sharing your story, because it has helped me see things so differently. I will try to live each day now with gratitude and simple joy like Morgan did. That’s my goal. So even though she is sadly no longer here, I hope you can take some comfort in knowing she is still helping people.

I also noticed that you post quotes quite often, and being very into quotes myself, I thought I would share some with you that seemed pertinent; I hope you like them and feel free to use them in your blog or whatever! I hope you get justice sooner rather than later, but however long it takes, I know that good will overcome evil. My husband and I are praying for you all, and I have shared your blog with my family and friends! If there is anything else I can do, I would love to help in some way. 

Here are the quotes and why they reminded me of your journey: 

“God is within her; she will not fail.” Psalm 46:5 (This one reminded me of your quest for justice for Morgan and your crusade to help all victims)

“Write hard and clear about what hurts.” -Ernest Hemingway (You’ve certainly done that, in a profound way.)

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.” -Gloria Steinem (The outrage you and your supporters feel is fuel to the cause!)

The last one I don’t have a source for, but it reminds me of the one you cited from the Aspen newspaper (“If you don’t want it printed, don’t let it happen” I think it was), and I think it applies so well to the perpetrators:

“You own everything that has happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should’ve behaved better.” 

God bless you and your whole family.

TODAY IS NATIONAL DAY OF REMEMBRANCE FOR MURDER VICTIMS

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ALWAYS REMEMBER AND KEEP THEM IN YOUR HEART

Again, another picture through Morgan’s lens…

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Morgan with her camera photographing our hotel room.  This was taken on our very last vacation together before her murder.  She loved keeping a photo journal of all her journeys…I know Morgan is still on her journey just on a different plane now.

I miss my youngest child every moment of every day and I tell her every single day, “Morgan your dad and I will never give up our quest for justice for you as well as all others who no longer have a voice – I love you sweetheart.”

National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims is September 25th

Please share with everyone you know in Colorado.

According to the FBI almost 15,000 homicides were committed in 2012 across our country.  That’s roughly five out of every 100,000 people killed due to senseless violence. What the statistics won’t tell you is that many of these homicides remain unsolved today, and join the thousands of cases that date back decades, and our daughter Morgan is one of those cases.

COVA

http://www.coloradocrimevictims.org

Announcement from COVA
September 25: National Day of Remembrance – Save the Date!
Location: Wellington Webb Building, 201 West Colfax, Denver
Time: 11AM – 1PM
This year we observe our nation’s 9th Annual Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims. Please join us for a commemorative ceremony on Friday, September 25th.

Mistress of Ceremonies:
Michelle Adams

Special Guests:
HOPE  Animal-Assisted Crisis Response
‘Comfort Canine’ Teams

Special Guest Speakers:
History of Day of Remembrance
Phil ClarkLeader of the Front Range Chapter of Parents of Murdered Children (POMC)

Marlayna’s Story, Shaken Baby Syndrome
Nancy ProkopVictim Services Coordinator, Parker Police Department & Marlayna’s Gigi (Great Grandmother)
Michelle Prokop, Pre-school Teacher, Marlayna’s Nana

Families of murder victims are encouraged to bring a picture of their loved one to display. A representative from each family may present the name of their loved one, date of birth, date of death, and age at time of death at the microphone.

In fairness to all, when introducing your loved one, please limit your remarks to: name of your loved one, date of birth, date of death, and age at time of death.  

September 25th was chosen to honor POMC founders Robert and Charlotte Hullinger of Cincinnati, Ohio, whose daughter was murdered on that date in 1978.

THE ANNUAL EVENT IS CO-SPONSORED BY: The Front Range Chapter of Parents of Murdered Children, Voices of Victims, Denver Police Department Victim Assistance Unit, Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), Families of Homicide Victims and Missing Persons, Rocky Mountain Victim Law Center, Denver District Attorney’s Office, Attorney General’s Office, Division of Criminal Justice, and COVA.

September 25: Making a Difference Soiree ‘Save the Date’
Victim Outreach Incorporated (VOI)

A black and white affair to benefit Victim Outreach, Inc.
Time: 6PM
Location: Lakewood Country Club, 6800 West 10th Avenue, Lakewood, CO 80214

Cover-up – why do people think cover-up?

seamless-crime-law-or-legal-background-tile-texture-with-lots-of-icons-of-different-itemLet’s start with what is a cover-up?  Whenever someone mentions a cover-up immediately my mind wonders what are they talking about…so I looked up all the definitions about what constitutes a cover-up and here is a very easy explanation that you can read on http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cover-up

A cover-up is an attempt, whether successful or not, to conceal evidence of wrongdoing, error, incompetence or other embarrassing information.  In a passive cover-up, information is simply not provided; in an active cover-up, deception is used.

Wikipedia goes on to say the expression is usually applied to people in positions of authority, in Morgan’s case that would be the Garfield County Sheriff Lou Vallario, Detective Rob Glassmire (on an aside you should know Detective Glassmire is now the Garfield County Coroner), Forensic Pathologist Robert Kurtzman, as well as the then Garfield County Coroner Trey Holt, who abuse their power to avoid or silence criticism or to deflect guilt of wrongdoing.  Those who initiate a cover-up (for their allies) may be responsible for a misdeed, a breach of trust or duty or a crime.

While the terms are often used interchangeably, cover-up involves withholding incriminatory evidence, while whitewash involves releasing misleading evidence.  In our daughter Morgan’s case what was done absolutely falls under the cover-up category (passive as well as active) even though there were also incidents that were done that can be considered a whitewash.  And the really frightening part of this is that I know the officials involved in this know exactly what they did and are continuing to do it…this now brings up criminal intent.

People ask me how Steve and I are able to fight against this kind of a cover-up.  Well it’s not easy – it has been extremely painful and very difficult.  An investigation into Morgan’s suspicious death should have been opened over three years ago, but it wasn’t, and ever since then there have been people involved in keeping information from us so we will give up, but we haven’t.  We have been able to investigate and get an incredible amount of evidence including motive…yes, I said motive.

This was a flawed investigation, mishandled from the start, and as the District Attorney Sherry Caloia said, “It was botched.”  As Morgan’s parents we would like to know why our questions were never answered, why our requests (certified, and sent to all) were never fulfilled, and why the coroner choose to cover up Morgan’s true manner of death.  We want justice for our daughter Morgan Jennifer Ingram, plain and simple – something every victim of stalking and murder deserves.  Lately I have been reading about sheriff’s deputies testifying in cases where it was proven to be a cover-up.  They testify about the “code of silence” in law enforcement and now rank-and-file officers are facing charges and those in charge are being indicted on obstruction charges.  Maybe the seeds of change are starting to sprout.

Morgan was murdered in cold blood, it was a premeditated murder that was executed in order to silence a witness, and she deserved an investigation into her murder – not a cover up of her murder!  Morgan’s stalking and murder is an act of domestic terrorism in my opinion.  We want justice for Morgan and we do not want her stalker/murderer to get away with this crime.  If Morgan’s case can not be a case then I fear for other victims of stalking victims – if their stalker can just kill them and then it’s case over then there is no future for them.  If the Garfield County Sheriff’s department can just shake their head and slam the door and sweep Morgan’s stalking and murder under the rug by misrepresenting the facts of her case then what is the remedy?  Where can families turn?

In the meantime our journey hasn’t been without sacrifices.  We are still being stalked – we have been since Morgan’s death.  We didn’t realize it until a few months after her murder.  Then after this blog came out the stalking escalated.  And then 15 months after her death our stalking became physically damaging. But who were we supposed to turn to?  Obviously not the Garfield County sheriffs.  So 2 years after Morgan’s murder we faced that pivotal moment…we realized that we had to move out of Colorado (our home) and enter the Victim’s Address Confidentiality Program in another state.  I did not want to do this.  I wanted to dig my heals in and stand my ground, but some very wise experts told us it was better to move and continue our fight then to end up dead with no one left to fight for justice for Morgan…so we left.  And so we continue our fight.  Staying in the state of Colorado was not an option, because in Colorado that program is run by the sheriffs.  We felt at that time the sheriffs were possibly involved in a cover-up, and we had no idea how deep it went, so we could not take any chances…we were told to get to a safe place, and we did.

It has been life-changing & much too hard to think that anyone else could continue on in the lead for the fight for justice.  The advice I received finally convinced me to no longer allow my own ego to get in the way of doing the right thing.  I am grateful for the opportunity to have such wise people in my life.

To this day we are still being stalked – this is easily ascertained by looking at all the anonymous websites & blogs on the internet dedicated to spreading mistruths about Morgan, her family and the events of Morgan’s stalking and murder.  These people come on every & any forum that mentions Morgan’s case or her name and attack – they attack under fake profiles.  We are continually thwarting the attempts to “hack” into our lives.  I guess this small group of co-conspirators must have a lot of time on their hands, or they have convinced themselves that they need to do everything they can to make sure Morgan’s death is not investigated.  Because they know if it is investigated the person(s) they are protecting will be convicted and the people involved in the cover-up can be indicted.  So for these people it is a matter of life & death.

I am convinced this is only a small group of family & friends of the criminal(s), but they create fake accounts and pretend to be many more people.  It is interesting because for the last few years the wording and comments that are made on the different forums are always the same, so you can tell the same people are writing them.  This is just another form of stalking – it’s called cyber-stalking, and that is a crime as well.

I also constantly get spoofed calls and text messages on my cell phone, even though I have changed my phone number.  But I must say that all the cyber-stalking, bullying and threats will not deter me from my path.  When I wake up every single morning I have a sense of purpose in my heart & no one can take that away from me – no one.  I have been extremely blessed to have so many wonderful people come into my life over the last few years.  People that have joined in our fight for truth and justice.

A little idea to think about today…Kindness is like a cat.  When you give it away it usually comes back.  Wouldn’t it be nice if all these mean hearted people used all their energies to spread kindness instead of hate and lies?