When Will Our Laws Become Strong Enough To Save Another Innocent Victim of Stalking?

Another recent murder by a stalker. Law enforcement and our judicial systems need to really understand the dangers that stalkers pose, so they can implement strong protocols. Our stalking laws have to become stronger and clearer – in this day and age there is NO excuse for victims to not get the help they need from law enforcement.

One of the victim’s neighbors said, “I was terrified,” the neighbor told the newspaper, “because I always said, ‘This guy’s going to kill her.’”

https://jezebel.com/a-womans-neighbors-called-police-10-times-to-report-a-s-1849195633

 

For All Victims/Survivors of Stalking…This is your Fight Song

Don’t know if you need to hear this today but this song always gives me a little extra encouragement to push forward…your life is important, and you deserve to have a life free from your stalker. Never give up!

Fight Song by Rachel Platten. The theme of this song is that no matter what situation you’ll always have a spark of fight in you to make it through.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xo1VInw-SKc

The Unlovely Truth Podcast: Episode 42: The Stalking of Kristin

I am so honored to have been a guest speaker on the podcast called “The Unlovely Truth,” by Lori Morrison. Please click on the link below to listen in. The story about Kristin’s stalking is horrific, as so many stalking stories are…it is always important to remember that stalking is serious, dangerous, insidious and needs to be stopped before it becomes lethal. Please share to help with awareness.

Lori told me that this episode has already being downloaded at her fastest rate ever!  Let me know what you think about the episode, once you have listened to it.

Lori also said, “Thank you again for sharing so much wisdom and practical advice. I know it will make a difference in many people’s lives.”
I am so thankful to have been given the opportunity to share some information, so that others can have the same knowledge, that sadly I did not have until I had to travel this lonely journey, since Morgan’s stalking and murder.
#RaiseAwareness
#Justiceforallvictimsofstalking
#JusticeforMorgan

Today is National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims

It is estimated that 14,249 people each year are murdered nationwide…this is 39 murders per day – and that is only the reported murders!

The National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims on September 25 came to be after the U.S. Senate unanimously passed resolutions on October 16, 2007 (S. Res. 326) and the U.S. House of Representatives on May 14, 2007 (H. Res. 223). On this day we honor the memory of victims who have been killed by violence. We also acknowledge the long-term trauma that survivors of this violence deal with every day. Survivors and co-victims include family and friends, as well as their communities…they all suffer, every single day, in their own way. For each and every victim there are many co-victims left behind, they are called the survivors.

Raising awareness can bring about positive changes for victims and survivors, that is why we must never forget the victims. Families deserve answers and everyone deserves justice.

It has been said, “Awareness is most certainly the greatest agent for change,” and that is exactly what FOHVAMP http://www.unresolvedhomicides.org is trying to accomplish…change. Not only in supporting the co-victims, but also by trying to bring about positive changes for victims and survivors, by leveling the ‘playing field’ for victims, as well as co-victims, for those families and friends left behind after a horrific murder. 

Let us NEVER forget. Please remember to read the book, “Survivors” by Dennis N. Griffin https://www.amazon.com/dp/195071201X

Since its inception, the song below, We Are the Survivors© has reached and touched so many people around the country. The song was adopted as the National theme song for Parents of Murdered Children, Inc®. and has been shared with many other support organizations as well. https://www.pomc.com/songs/new_survivor_song.mp3

Richard Wright and Kim Tewksbury were the original creators of the song, We Are the Survivors©.

We Are The Survivors 

There are those of us whose mothers have been taken from our arms,
There are those of us with children we could not keep safe from harm.
There are those of us who’ve lived to see our fathers lose their lives,
and in our dreams we’ll keep them all alive,
cause each and every one of us survives.

Chorus: 
We are the survivors, left behind to carry on.
We are the survivors, joined together we are strong.
We will speak out for our loved ones who were not given a choice.
We are the survivors, hear our voice.

Maybe some of us have brothers who were here, but now they’re gone,
You can ask about our sisters, because their memory is strong.
We are sons and we are daughters, we are husbands, we are wives,
and friends who try to keep their dreams alive,
And each and every one of us survives.

Repeat Chorus: 

Bridge:
With a part of us that never heals, and a fear of the unknown,
There’s a strength in knowing through it all, you’re not alone.
We are the survivors, hear our voice.