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Here is the link to the change.org petition that I just started – please sign it for Morgan
Friends,
I just created a petition entitled Colorado State Governor John Hickenlooper: We want Morgan Ingram’s felony stalking investigation reopened.
I’m trying to collect 100 signatures, and I could really use your help.
To read more about what I’m trying to do and to sign my petition, click here:
http://www.change.org/petitions/colorado-state-governor-john-hickenlooper-we-want-morgan-ingram-s-felony-stalking-investigation-reopened?share_id=rMbfongVvE&utm_campaign=petition_creator_email&utm_medium=email&utm_source=share_petition
It’ll just take a minute!
Once you’re done, please ask your friends to sign the petition as well. Grassroots movements succeed because people like you are willing to spread the word!
Thank you all so very much!
Toni
Just When Does Stalking Become Stalking?
I sat and read a law, not my favorite pastime, but sometimes you have to in order to feel like you really know it. When I came across the “It’s really a felony stalking case” note in my timeline, I showed it to Steve. He did the math, and said eighty- five days… unbelievable!
So, from the Colorado Revised Statutes I have this to present and the bolding is added by me, to just the parts I thought were important. But by all means read the whole thing if you are in Colorado:
CRS
A stalker may also develop jealousy and animosity for persons who are in relationships with the victim, including family members, employers and co-workers, and friends, perceiving them as obstacles or as threats to the stalker’s own “relationship” with the victim;
(e) Because stalking involves highly inappropriate intensity, persistence, and possessiveness, it entails great unpredictability and creates great stress and fear for the victim;
(f) Stalking involves severe intrusions on the victim’s personal privacy and autonomy, with an immediate and long-lasting impact on quality of life as well as risks to security and safety of the victim and persons close to the victim, even in the absence of express threats of physical harm.
(2) The general assembly hereby recognizes the seriousness posed by stalking and adopts the provisions of this part 6 with the goal of encouraging and authorizing effective intervention before stalking can escalate into behavior that has even more serious consequences.
A person commits stalking if directly, or indirectly through another person, the person knowingly:
(a) Makes a credible threat to another person and, in connection with the threat, repeatedly follows, approaches, contacts, or places under surveillance that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship; or
(b) Makes a credible threat to another person and, in connection with the threat, repeatedly makes any form of communication with that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship, regardless of whether a conversation ensues; or
(c) Repeatedly follows, approaches, contacts, places under surveillance, or makes any form of communication with another person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship in a manner that would cause a reasonable person to suffer serious emotional distress and does cause that person, a member of that person’s immediate family, or someone with whom that person has or has had a continuing relationship to suffer serious emotional distress. For purposes of this paragraph (c), a victim need not show that he or she received professional treatment or counseling to show that he or she suffered serious emotional distress.
(2) For the purposes of this part 6:
(a) Conduct “in connection with” a credible threat means acts that further, advance, promote, or have a continuity of purpose, and may occur before, during, or after the credible threat.
(b) “Credible threat” means a threat, physical action, or repeated conduct that would cause a reasonable person to be in fear for the person’s safety or the safety of his or her immediate family or of someone with whom the person has or has had a continuing relationship. The threat need not be directly expressed if the totality of the conduct would cause a reasonable person such fear.
(c) “Immediate family” includes the person’s spouse and the person’s parent, grandparent, sibling, or child.
(d) “Repeated” or “repeatedly” means on more than one occasion.
I read it three times now and I don’t see one word about waiting 1 day, let alone 85 days, if you do please let me know. In fact on the contrary I see words like “seriousness” and “effective intervention” and then the real zinger, “escalate into behavior that has even more serious consequences”. Morgan’s death was certainly an even more serious consequence. How much more serious could it have been? If the general assembly of the State of Colorado can see the connection between stalking and serious consequence, how come the Garfield Sheriff’s department can’t. It was a “mystery” the day she was killed and it never changed. A mystery? After 121 days of stalking? Read it as I might I just don’t see those words in there. I just don’t think what was allowed to happen to Morgan was what the General Assembly had in mind when they drafted this law. So if they did not, then who did?
A post from Morgan’s friend Tacia…
I came accross this band this morning, and it reminded me of Morgan because of her kitty Mogwai. I think she would have liked this song. I can picture her smiling and swaying gently to it with the soft morning sunlight pouring over her face. I could never recreate her in my imagination as beatiful as she really was, but it is a warm thought and a fond feeling it gives me all the same. She had an incredibly diverse taste, and divine appreciation for music. I loved listening to music with her, we would just immerse ourselves in the sounds, cuddle up together in a blanket of tones, tap our toes to the beat. She really felt things, she was so open to life. I feel like the whole world is asleep, they don’t see the beauty in everything like she did. She always inspired and amazed me with her capacity to absorb and embrace everything with such loving, open arms. I felt like she could swallow the whole world up in one great gulp, breath it in with one deep breath, and if she were to breathe it all back out, in a gentle sort of sigh, the world would have been a better place. Anyway, I just thought perhaps it might brighten your day just the tiniest bit. Many, many wishes of love and healing to you and your family Toni. Click on the following like to see the video.
Mogwai – “How to Be a Werewolf” Sub Pop Records
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Stories of stalking…what if stories of the victims helped heal and empower others?
Every day I sit in front of a computer and relive a day that led up to my daughter’s death. I was truly uncertain as to how she had died at first, and Steve and I sought out a second opinion. We were shocked, in denial, exercising avoidance, you name a psychological name that protects you from the brutal truth, and there is a good chance it was humming full speed in us at that time.
Along this path to recovery we had a third opinion, a fourth, a fifth, so many we have lost track. All wonderful caring professionals I will never be able to thank enough for the time they took, and the compassion with which they treated our family. Completely diametrically opposed to the way we were treated by the Coroner Trey Holt and the subcontractor who does his autopsies Dr. Robert Kurtzman. At one point I remember Steve pointing out that if the score was being kept it was 12 -1, Twelve professionals certain that the one, Dr. Robert Kutzman was wrong. As you can imagine that did not go over well with Dr. Robert Kurtzman, obviously not used to being questioned or having to answer tough questions he became frustrated and dismissed it all as “none of these other doctors can testify, only I can testify in court, and he was so wrong about that too. But he and Trey Holt had their own agenda, and I really am at a loss to explain what that might have been. The well being of our family as we dealt with this nightmare, and the pursuit of justice for Morgan Jennifer Ingram did not exist for those two.
Even Thomas Walton, of whom I spoke yesterday, he may have really been trying to do a good job, but if his requirements were zero, and his training was zero, and if part of his job description was to make sure his boss got the job of handling the funeral to come, well if that was the case, he did as good as he could have been expected to. They are completely separate entities you know, or at least they are supposed to be. The Coroner’s office – ultimate authority for the cause of death, none higher – then the funeral home is what comes after, and only after the County Coroner has completed his job and released the body. That they are the same person is problematic to be sure, but that is sort of the law here in Colorado.
I have found it really important to share what happened, and along the path to recovery the most amazing thing has happened. Sharing the story has become the rock around which Steve and I rebuild… our family, the search for truth, and justice for Morgan, and even ourselves.
It has been on my mind for a long time and I believe today is the day. So many have shared with me their stories of stalking, as you know there have even been a few arrests across the country, arrests I am told would not have happened were it not for Morgan’s story being shared. People have realized by reading her story that they have a stalker and need to report it and not just keep it to themselves.
So I want to do something, I want to ask all of you who have been victims of stalking to try something. Share your story with Morgan, don’t use your real name, maybe initials. But tell what happened, and how it made you feel, and what you did about it, and the State it happened in, short or long as you want. This is all in the hopes that it will help to heal and, my fingers are crossed here, rip the cover off this crime called stalking for all the country, and the world to see. So keep that in mind as you write. Then send it to me as an anonymous tip. I think it would be a good thing to have a group of stories of stalking. People are so absolutely amazed by the story of Morgan’s stalking, and certain it has to be told. Maybe your story will touch a chord too, and maybe that is the real story here.