I had to go to the doctor in Glenwood Springs today for a procedure, and did not want to leave Morgan at home alone, so she went with me, but she decided to stay in the car (with the doors locked) to get some rest, as she has not been sleeping well because of the stalker. At 10:10 am I texted Morgan, “Still waiting for the doctor – how’s it going in the car?” Morgan said, “Good. Just laying down.” I finally came out and we drove together back home.
After getting home I went back to work in my home office and Morgan took a shower and crashed out on the couch to watch a movie while her puppy slept at her feet on the wood floor. She was knitting and watching the movie, and the day seemed warm and quiet. Later that afternoon Morgan decided to go and hangout with friends, while Steve and I went to do errands after work. She had her laptop and phone with her. When Steve got home he and I went to do our errands. At 5:26 pm I sent a text to Morgan, “Should I text you when we get home? We might not be home till 7:30 or 8 and I don’t want you to go home until we’re there” Morgan wrote back, “Yeah, thanks!” I wrote her back again at 5:57 pm, “Is that way too long for you to stay? We could come home sooner.” She wrote back, “Nah, that’s totally fine.” 6:44 pm sent Morgan another text, “On our way home from Glenwood Springs and will stop at Carbondale City Market for milk and text you when home.” Morgan wrote back, “K. :)” 7:18 pm I sent Morgan a text, “Out of the store and on our way home Let you know when we get there.” Morgan wrote back, “Haha alrighty. Thanks :)” 7:31 pm I sent Morgan a text saying, “We’re home – I’ll wait out front for you.” Morgan wrote back, “ Oh Mom…” I wrote back to Morgan, “I know I’m adorable – you don’t have to say it.”
I sent Morgan a Facebook “Poke :)” Morgan sent me a FB message, “You are too cute!” Steve and I had purchased a camera system at Costco tonight, but it doesn’t seem to work well – looks like we will have to return it.
I sent Morgan a Facebook text “Poke back again, but this time with hot gooey peanut nutter cookies.” Tonight, while Morgan was sleeping in my closet something was thrown at the closet window, which is 10 feet above the ground. Morgan came out of the closet to tell me that “he” knows she is in the closet, and now he’s throwing rocks at that window to scare her. She is extremely distraught, angry and doesn’t know what to do. Steve is now getting upset with me, because he knows how loud I talk and feels that a person outside trying to listen to what we are saying could hear me through our bedroom windows, which are being kept open till we are ready to go to sleep in order to let the cool night air in. Steve said, “Of course her stalker knows she is in the closet – you said good night to her while she was in there and even said,”Are you sure you’re OK in the closet Morgan?” I guess I was still thinking while in our own house people shouldn’t be trying to overhear us, but that was very stupid thinking of course, this predator was watching and listening to everything – and we were anything but safe in our own home.
Click here to read about the 10th day of Morgan’s stalking https://morgansstalking.com/?p=518
R.I.P Morgan <3
We love you our little Morgster and your kitty and puppy miss you too. Your little niece Joni tells your sister she talks to you all the time. I hear you in my sleep. And your horse is always looking around for you. I know you are close by because I feel you. Don’ t worry I will keep strong and see his through.
Ughh…so here I am again. I’m reading it all in order. There is spyware available so you can easily read what people (like me, right now) are typing. I assume it’s possible (probably easy) to do with texts or anything sent digitally. Has that been considered? Sorry if I’m jumping ahead…just a thought that occurred to me.
Absolutely considered – we checked her phone for an app but nothing was on it that we could see, we checked our phone records for any kind of spike in texting (to see if there was an interception) but we couldn’t tell and now we are hoping someone with technical savvy that knows how to check her phone can do it.
I am saying this for anyone in a similar situation on the future, get a noise machine, a fan or noise and leave it constant. Put it by the walls to the outdoors. Also I have to say the relationship seems a little overwhelming to me as a late 20’s daughter. I have been kidnapped, assaulted and rape by someone we knew however my mother also realized she couldn’t always protect me after that. Someone saved my life by the grace of God. I only wish situation would have been different with Morgan but teaching others and awareness is what one can do now. That is why I read this blog.
Toni: I just started reading your blog from the beginning to see if my stalker experiences can shed some insight in Morgan’s case. This may be premature to share as I’m only on the 9th day. If your daughter kept her cell phone with her, even while sleeping in the closet, he could locate her exact position using a tapping device installed remotely on her phone through a text message. She wouldn’t even no it was installed. The spyware can activate the speaker on the phone so he can listen to conversations. He can also read her text messages real-time, listen to live phone conversations (his phone would ring or txt him when her phone received or sent a text or call). Any pictures she texted or posted on FB could be tracked to her exact location. He can live any where to receive notification. Magnetic Car tapping devices are easily installed and removed in a few minutes so he could have tracked her that way too but more likely through the GPS location option on her smart phone. After an attempted break in in my hotel room I met with a private investigator and was educated on how my stalker was able to locate my exact room location. From what I gathered at the time, it is difficult to trace it back to the person. FBI might have the means to do so, however. Also, visit YouTube and search cell phone tapping, spying or stalking to watch news broadcasts about how it is done.
I moved from Arizona to Utah to flee from my stalker and had peace for a year until he found me again. I have no idea who this person is and i am told some will stalk for years. As you know from my earlier post today, I’m living through it all again but this time I’m choosing to stay and fight rather than run. As the P.I. Said, “running wont stop the stalker and will only make things harder for you and your son. Get comfortable using a gun and don’t heitstate to use it, don’t waiver.” Here’s to courage and strength!
I wish you and your family the very best. My heart goes out to you all!
PS: to protect my identity for safety purposes, I am using a fictitious email address I do not use nor have any idea if it belongs to a real person already. I just want you to know that in case you try to email me. I believe I mentioned this previously but my phone cut the message short so I wanted to be sure it was sent.