Sunday, August 14, 2011 – The 13th Day of Morgan’s Stalking

We did a power wash outside of our house to make sure the dirt under the windows would catch more footprints, the sheriff’s deputies had suggested we try this.  Someone even suggested to me that putting fresh soil around the whole house, directly under the windows, would yield even better shoe prints, but at this point, even though we are utilizing some of these suggestions, we feel that with all the motion detector lights, and motion alarms that we have been putting up, that the stalker should not be able to stand right up against our house and peer in the windows. And for some reason this gives us a measure of comfort…it should not have, because in these first beginning days of Morgan’s stalking, none of us really knew how bad it would get.  We didn’t know that everything we used to keep him/her (the stalker) out, just made it more of a challenge for him.  We didn’t realize that the more often the sheriffs had a presence here, the more excited it made him.  This was becoming a bigger and bigger challenge for him.  Morgan is still sleeping on the closet floor, and thankfully was not startled awake in her sleep tonight…we were all very happy.

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Today August 14, 2012 my thoughts and feelings about stalking are so much more evolved than from a year ago. It seems simple to me that law enforcement should be able to differentiate between the different “typology” of stalkers, if they had had that training it would have made all the difference in the world.  Morgan’s stalker was never seen (but that is typical about most stalkers, especially in the beginning – they stalk and they surveil in the shadows), Morgan’s stalker seemed to “get off” on the sheriffs showing up at our house. What if they had been able to employ different degrees of urgency in catching a stalker, one that could become more lethal, and better warn the victims?  The stalkers who progress to become serial killers or murderers – shouldn’t law enforcement have a type of profile to make this determination? The next serial killer could be lurking outside your window. It’s the first thing we tell people now when they ask us for advice – to look up the “typology.” Criminals are constantly improving their protection under the law, while as for the victims, it has stayed the same – almost no rights. Remember that we are supposed to be guaranteed the most basic rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Morgan and the rest of us had very little of that during the time of her stalking. Yet even if the stalker had been caught in the beginning, the worst he would have faced was misdemeanor trespassing, right up there with jay walking, as one officer compared it to. Not much of a deterrent is it? The sheriff’s patrol officers really wanted to catch the stalker, but because of the protocol they employed of “catch him in the act”, they never stood a chance, and neither did we.  As long as he could outrun, or hide from everyone, and not get collared near the house, what would happen to him? Nothing. This was, as Mike Proctor puts it,  “tombstone mentality” and Morgan paid the price for that mentality with her life. The stalker had more basic rights then we did, Morgan, and even our family were scrutinized far more closely then the stalker ever was – remember how the system used to allow the rape victim to be psychologically raped all over again when she reported the rape, and then again when the case finally went to trial?  Here we go again, maybe that is why stalking is the most under reported crime at this time.  The Constitution was written to establish justice, ensure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, and promote the general welfare – none of this existed for Morgan once she had a stalker.  After a effort by the Garfield County Sheriff’s office to try to catch the stalker, using a protocol that doesn’t work, (how many times have they actually caught a stalker in this county without the stalker just confessing?), the coroner’s office never ordered an investigation to find out why or how our daughter died, and then the felony stalking investigation was officially closed 5 month after her murder.  This approach will not protect you, you are not safe.  If it’s our government’s job to ensure its people these rights, then they failed miserably.  Not only for ourselves, but for our community, as we believe this stalker has done this before, and will do it again.  I have received emails from other women that live in the neighbor right across from us that tell of similar incidents, incidents that were reported to the Garfield Sheriffs, one only 2 weeks before Morgan’s stalking started, one that even had a sheriff’s canine track the suspect, before losing him down the county road.  We had the first 2 patrol officers tell us about approximately 7 incidents similar to Morgan’s that happened in that subdivision the previous summer before Morgan’s.

What would you do if your daughter, husband and yourself were being stalked and your child was murdered, but law enforcement didn’t care to investigate?

We are so very blessed, and thankful that we have so many hundreds, and now almost thousands of people that want to help.  Now we need our county to step up and admit, like all of us have done at one time or another, that mistakes were made, that they will now fix them and go after the person or persons responsible for our daughter’s death.  We want to do this out of love.  Love for other children, daughters, sisters, young women, and anyone that may be in danger right now, or in the future, from a sick obsessed stalker that is still out there and will most likely to do it again, and again.  To us – this is not acceptable, and things have to change.

10 thoughts on “Sunday, August 14, 2011 – The 13th Day of Morgan’s Stalking

  1. It’s difficult to believe that the Coroner’s office never ordered an investigation to find out why or how Morgan died. How could they possibly close the felony stalking investigation with the evidence of stalking?

  2. Have you contacted the newspaper about this? If this is still an open case, and you’re rightly trying to make changes to the law, wouldn’t the local newspapers be interested in forwarding this?

    • It will be coming out in the newspapers as well as on TV shortly. The felony stalking part of her case was closed after she died, and now her case is officially a cold case, but I believe it is about to be reopened. We will get justice for Morgan, and at the same time the things we go through in order to seek that justice will become a road map for others to know what to do and how to fight back…the laws + much more need to change and change is what we want to be a part of.

      • Please know that this story has gotten me so worked up that i cant breathe clearly..I know my life will never be the same hearing about sweet Morgan and knowing that her beautiful young life ended so tragically..It just makes me soooo angry and fills me with hate!

  3. I’m shocked. I am a single mother, with two daughters age 11 & 16 in Carbondale. I never heard ANYTHING about this story prior to seeing today’s post on my daughter’s facebook today!!! How is that possible??? I don’t even know how to tell you how terrible this is, how very very sorry I am, I will read the entire story and I will do anything within my power to help you find and demand the help you need to find the answers and do anything possible to increase protection for any one else who is ever in this position. I am so very sorry for your loss. Words can not express the depth of my sympathy for your pain and loss.

  4. My son Eric Dee Preimesberger was murdered on April 21, 2010 by his wife and her brother. Not one person would take a missing person ay 17, 2010, after she and her bro. ran and hid from the police detectives on the case in Reno, NV. It took us until August 13, 2010 to find out he was really dead, and until August 19, for his remains to be found. I understand your frustation, one mother of a murdered child to another, incompetent cops NEVER admit they made or make mistakes.

  5. no one cared he was missing, he was an adult male and if he wanted to leave he could. But without his beloved Ruckus Scooter, not calling anyone for months, and still not one cop cared enough to look for his wife or her brother. by the way her brother was sentenced to 2nd degree murder and she walked free because of the STUPID SIBLING PROTECTION LAW. I feel every anger and loss pain you have.

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