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At 9:00 am Morgan was home and received a text from her dance partner, “China said she can’t come on Saturday.” Morgan answered, “I think we should reschedule. There’s a huge storm warning all weekend. 🙁 .” Her friend answered, “Okay. I might not be able to go any other time. I have to go pick up Ian, regardless, so that kinda drains my money for pointe shoes.” Morgan felt bad, “Shit. 🙁 .” And her friend told her, “Yeah. I mean, if you don’t feel comfortable with driving, I totally understand. This is not an attempted guilt trip, pinky promise.”
The weather is bad, a storm arriving as scheduled. Morgan leaves for her classes, and gets a text message from her dance teacher, “I am running late from Aspen. Weather, and roads. Can u plz let everyone know! Thank u! XoXo can you have everyone start warming up…ask Emily Bennet to see if Abbie will let you in the room.”
I see my therapist for the first time today, and she is great. We talk and work on a plan to de-stress. I explain about the stalker, tell her that I feel he is hiding in the bushes in front of the house by the garage, under the window (I had seen shoe prints behind the bush under the window), hiding in the shadows where the cameras can’t see him. I explain how after all the cameras went in we sat back and looked at the front of the garage, which has no coverage, and the rear yard, which has a few blind spots. We had put the wildlife camera out front, but it stopped working completely and was now retired.
Together we work on a plan to take away the front of the garage as a possible hiding spot. It was a simple plan that only required moving half of the stuff in the garage so I could look out the garage window to observe, and although I thought he would be really grumpy at best Steve did not complain at all and after a major reshuffle of the contents the garage was ready for plan “B”. I was excited. I would wear dark clothes, turn off all of the lights and stand near the back window. From there I could see most of the front yard, and all along the front side yard to Rhonda’s house. Camera’s had the side yard covered, and I had a big mag light to shine out the window in case I saw anything. It was kind of warm, and safe and I could come and go as I pleased, undetected from outside.
I spent two long stints in the garage patiently watching the yard, scanning from side to side. I thought about the sheriffs and their stakeouts here. It was not so bad at first, but it would get cold, and boring out there in the elements. The wind was bursting outside and snow started and stopped, enough to keep a good cover on the ground. The stalker would certainly avoid conditions like this, he would leave tracks, and be easy to follow.
The snow became heavier and I decided to stop for tonight. The set up was a good idea and was working well, I did not expect to catch him the first time. In fact I had to coordinate a plan with Steve for how I should alert him when I did see something on a future stakeout, and how he should react. Based on our stalker so far we should not expect more than one chance, so we had to make it a good one. I thought about the detectives too, they hadn’t had a chance to do one of their stake outs yet, things kept coming up. I feared they had better hurry because winter was coming, and before long it would be very unpleasant out there. But then that might mean the stalker would be closing up for the winter, wouldn’t that be nice!!!
Click here to read about the 67th & 68th days of Morgan’s stalking https://morgansstalking.com/?p=1609
I’m blown away by this tragic story. Bless you all for enduring this. Morgan was quite talented, have u considered selling some of the pictures she took to raise money for thus cause… I personally would love the leaf with a heart on it… Talented beautiful…. So sad, my prayers and respect are with u
We were just talking about doing that today – I promise that will be coming soon.
This story breaks my heart because at the same time Morgans stalking was going on, I also had a stalker and the police didn’t do all the could to help me. I was working at a gas station at the time and this man came in several times during every shift I work. I was nice but never once revealed any information about myself, or made him think I was interested. That October, I was extremely low on cash due to school, and I was 20 years old living on my own in an apartment so I had rent, and utilities due. Since in Iowa, it was unusually warm last year, I decided my cell phone payment was more important than my electricity, and I had a few days before it was going to be turned off. I confided in my friend who worked with me about this, so I could ask her if I could have some of her hours, and she in turn talked to my boss about it, in front of customers. One of them being the guy who was now showing up a minimum of 4 times during my 5 hour shifts, and would be sitting in the alleyway behind the store when I got off work at 11. The day before my electricity was to be shut off, the doorbell rang as I was getting ready for work. This man invites himself into my house and pulled out a pack of cigarettes and offers me one saying “i know you like these ones” i decline and ask him why hes in my house. He starts talking about how he heard about my money trouble and wants to help out. He then shoves 300 dollars into my hand. Startled, I try giving it back to him, explaining that I dont know him and it would be highly inappropriate, and I’d probably never be able to pay him back. He shook his head, and said “No, take it. Its a loan. You dont have to pay back in cash, just dont tell your boyfriend beasue he’ll get jealous.” At this point I was extremely creeped out. I never once told this man of my money troubles, nor did I tell him I had a boyfriend. I asked how he knew where I lived and he openly admitted that he looked around till he found my car. He then put the money down on my table and bolted out. That night at work, before he came in, which I knew he would, I gave my friend the money and told her I would point out the man to hand it to, while i hid in the back. He took the money and left and only came back once more that night, right as we were closing. At night I got a weird feeling I was being watched, so I tacked black blankets over my windows, and slept with a knife by my bed. The next day we were allowed to leave school early due to the main instructors being gone for the week on vacation, and Wednesdays were generally not busy at beauty school. I pulled into my parking lot and saw the man sitting in his car outside my apartment. I was so scared, I crashed my car into the huge dumpster outside. I got out of my car and confronted him. He asked “Why are you home early from school, I thought it got done at 5?” I just stared and shock and decided to go inside and call the police. I told him I had to get ready for work. At that point he grabbed my arm and said. “You don’t work today.” He started pulling me to his car saying “Come on, I’ll take you somewhere to eat, I know you have no food in your house.” I insisted I had to get to work, that they called me in and that was why I left school early. He let go of my arm and tried coming inside with my. I told him that was inappropriate and that he needed to leave. He did and I ran inside and called the police, and then my friend who worked at Casey’s with me. She lived a town over and still got there twenty minutes before the cops did. The minute the cop got there he was acting like -excuse my language- a dick. I took all his condescending comments in stride though and showed him the records I was keeping, an explained every detail. The cop got super frustrated with me when I told him I could give him a name, and the man was really unremarkable so describing as a 5’5″ Hispanic man with brown eyes and a mustache was not very helpful. But despite his frustration, i did not let it get to me. However, I got pissed when he was leaving and said, “Did it ever occur to you that he’s just being friendly? It wouldn’t kill you to be nice back.” I called work and school and told them I would not be coming in for a few day and drove 30 miles to stay with my mother. I had to go back however because my assistant manager called and said “I don’t give a f*** if some guy is following you. Be here today or your fired.” I was already having horrid money problems so I went back home. Sure enough my stalker was sitting outside when I came in for my shift. I called the cops again. He came and asked, since the man mentioned my boyfriend, who my boyfriend was. I told him and he said “Oh! Jeff and Karens boy! Great kid! Dont worry, well make sure this creep leaves you alone.” He left and I broke down in tears. Was I seriously insignificant to the towns law enforcement unless I had good connections? Apparently so. That night they found him in the alley waiting for me to get off work. He’s (mostly) left me alone since then, other than a few intense, unnerving, stares when I see him at walmart. It sickens me and breaks my heart knowing that I probably would have ended up the same way if I hadn’t been dating my boyfriend whos parents are high up in town. Until they knew that bit, I was just some trashy young woman who lived in the low-income houses.
So sad- “the calm before the storm” as it was/is- My continued prayers to you, your family, all of Morgan’s friends- I am sure she had many!! Beautiful heart and soul!! She is an old soul for sure… she is teaching us all so much and bringing so many people together through her tragic death! God is watching- and when the timing is right, Justice will be served!! People may make mistakes, but there exists something higher than us all to see you through to the end- It’s only a matter of timing…you have so many people supporting your family and justice for Morgan!! We BELIEVE in Morgan and the truth!! God Bless you!! May you find peace knowing you have touched so many lives through sharing your beautiful Morgan and her story with us! Thank you!! and thank you Morgan for your sacrifice, as heart-wrenching as it is-you have helped so many through your untimely passing…. you will never be forgotten!! Morgan already won- she was/is loved by everyone-she touches so many lives (in her living and in her passing) and she spread that love to so many others!! Take Care and never give up!!
That was such a sweet thing to say. We believe in Morgan, and the truth as well – we received some great news today, and we are just crossing our fingers that good people will decide to do what is right. Thanks for your support and never worry – we will never give up!
Do you have any idea of why K would be doing this? Is it because he loved Morgan? Because he hated Morgan? Because he was obsessed with Morgan? Do you think there were others involved also?
I know others were involved and I have my theories about why K did this to Morgan but until a full investigation happens it will just be based on things I have found out. I do not believe Morgan was the first and I do not believe Morgan will be the last.
Wow Toni……I was just this morning thinking—essentially in sync with you—about the VERY REAL possibility that K (and possibly his accomplice/s) have DONE THIS BEFORE!! I feel SO strongly that this is the case. He has a pattern…..an “m.o.”…..and he’s a person that needs to be THOROUGHLY investigated and extensively questioned ASAP (like yesterday!). It just makes me feel so angry when I think about this immense injustice that has occurred. I want you to know that I feel that the cogs of justice are indeed turning and moving forward for Justice for Morgan. It’s going to take time…..but you’ve (thankfully!) woken the “sleeping giant” and Morgan’s supporters will never ever just “go away”!! No way Jose LOL! Go Team Morgan GO! I’m THRILLED to bits that certain people are undoubtedly shaking in their boots about what a tough, intelligent and powerful ally Morgan has in the form of her amazing Mamma (and Pop)!!!!
I will continue to pray for JUSTICE for your one-of-kind sweet Morgan girl.
As a ballerina myself, Morgan feels like a kindred spirit…..she’s like an extremely special, sacred ‘sister’ to ALL of us in the arts community. I’m saddened that our paths never crossed…. I KNOW that I would have been inspired and touched by meeting her glowing self! Morgan clearly had one of “WOW” personalities. I bet you just marveled and felt immense joy/pride/love/admiration when you watched her dance. (((All my love to you guys))) from Seattle.
“Don’t let the turkeys get you down”! When you get a chance (I know you’re so busy…sorry) could you tell me what Morgan’s favorite classical ballet was? Or—if she preferred the more independent and varied choreographed pieces that are often assembled. I bet she loved both modern and classic ballet—-and excelled at both. God Bless Morgan and God Bless you guys! Sorry if I took up so much space here! XOXO
Peace be with you…..
I am so sorry for your loss. Morgan was so beautiful! I have 2 questions for you. 1. Can/Will you please post the other pics you have of the stalker? 2. Why did you cremate her? Thanks!
I am very sorry or your loss. I ‘m sure you have been on web sleuths but have you checked into this site
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a3687474/morgan_jennifer_ingram_-_part_2?cpg=72&csi=2397498133&pd=1
Do you have any thing to say in regards to their questions. How do you feel about the webslueths thread being closed?
why was the websleuths thread on morgan being closed?
No idea I have never been on the Websleuths site and when I tried to get on about a week ago I was blocked so I have no idea what to tell you.
Of course others were involved, remember when Morgan was being followed by 2 people in a car? These low life miserable people need to pay for what they have done to Morgan! For all I know they have probably done this before and are still doing it to someone else. WHY can’t the DA see that these individuals are VERY dangerous. You can bet that if this happened to his family he would be sure to lock up the people held responsible. Do your job!!!
Toni, as a former member of that community, please don’t click on that link. I’ve read some of the comments and some are nasty, mean-spirited, and factually useless. The members there can be very cruel (hence the reason I left) – people with too much time on their hands that just like to get others riled up. I don’t think reading it will help you any.
I completely agree. I found Morgan’s blog through that site (linked above), and read the whole thing before going back and reading the comments there. I am astonished by some, and like many other threads there, it is a system of attack that just cannot help you at any point. Some people are admittedly making assumptions without having read the entire sequence of events.
I am a fellow Colorado mother and I just ache for you and your family. Thank you for sharing this (as I never heard about it in the news), and thank you for opening our eyes to Garfield County’s shortcomings (and questioning how well we know our own county’s policies).
I’m going to have to agree when it comes to BBC and especially the “BHB” board. It can be a great site, for some people. I am on a couple of boards there but the BHB is what is known as….let us just call it drama central. They are there to feed their llamas, they are there to revel in conflict and to act in any way that they see fit.
Please just save yourself heartache and don’t go there. Don’t read whatever it is that has been written. There are a lot of really lovely ladies on that site. On the flip side there are a lot of ladies there there are just there to cause problems, they don’t care who they hurt. They are bullies. There are people who have been tracked down in real life by some and bullied.
The thread has been deleted anyway.
Mrs. Ingram you and your husband are amazing parents! I am sure Morgan it’s looking over you two with such pride for all that you are doing she had such strength and love for live because of you two. I will keep you in my prayers and hope the truth will be found out. God Bless.
The thread on websleuths was not closed, it went underground. Apparently only those who are not willing to wait for the facts and are making them up as they go along are welcome to read/post on that thread now from what I can tell. It is ironic because right before it went underground people were posting that it was “odd” and “suspect” that friends of your family/Morgan were not posting in your support. When people did post anything supportive or even that they were going to wait for more info they were attacked/and or made fun of by posters that had already decided there was no stalking, and possibly even Morgan had never existed. Very strange…
Very strange, but like I said before I can only do what I can do and I can’t make others change their minds so if they want to do something or say something that is entirely up to them. Thank you for being patient with me – I can tell you a lot of really good info will be coming out shortly. I just have to be careful with timing because for me the most important thing here is getting justice for Morgan not making websleuths happy. Take care!
The thread was moved to a members only area. If you have an account, you can read and post in the thread. It’s just not visible to the general public (non-members). Might actually be helpful, by keeping out people like the suspects you’ve named.
I agree with 88keys, and he beat me to the answer. Also, like a previous reader asked; why was she cremated? I don’t recall reading that but I’m curious as well..