{"id":8050,"date":"2018-05-04T18:19:32","date_gmt":"2018-05-05T00:19:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=8050"},"modified":"2018-05-04T18:19:32","modified_gmt":"2018-05-05T00:19:32","slug":"when-did-the-pain-of-others-become-something-to-be-ignored","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=8050","title":{"rendered":"When did the pain of others become something to be ignored?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"9603\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=9603\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i4.png?fit=700%2C700&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"700,700\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"i4\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i4.png?fit=584%2C584&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9603\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i4.png?resize=584%2C584&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"584\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i4.png?w=700&amp;ssl=1 700w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i4.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/i4.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I believe victims need to speak up. It&#8217;s hard, but their voices need to be heard, even when others around them do not want to hear about it. \u00a0If they do not speak out, then crimes against humanity will continue unabated.<\/p>\n<p>They need to speak loud and speak clear &#8211; these victims and co-victims live with so much pain that it is hard for them to speak out &#8211; but speak out they must, or the pattern of abuse and murder will continue to repeat itself.<\/p>\n<p>When victims speak out, as we are now hearing in the #MeToo movement, the rest of us have to listen and believe, in order to make the critical changes this world needs. \u00a0We need to love, respect and help each other &#8211; it doesn&#8217;t darken our lives, it illuminates our lives!<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"9863\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=9863\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Say-it-Loud-and-Clear-Thumbnail.jpg?fit=206%2C132&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"206,132\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Say-it-Loud-and-Clear-Thumbnail\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Say-it-Loud-and-Clear-Thumbnail.jpg?fit=206%2C132&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9863 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Say-it-Loud-and-Clear-Thumbnail.jpg?resize=206%2C132&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"206\" height=\"132\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I believe victims need to speak up. It&#8217;s hard, but their voices need to be heard, even when others around them do not want to hear about it. \u00a0If they do not speak out, then crimes against humanity will continue &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=8050\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88894,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[490],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8050","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-morgans-investigation"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2wvjS-25Q","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":12283,"url":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=12283","url_meta":{"origin":8050,"position":0},"title":"The System Failed Us, like so many others&#8230;","author":"Toni Ingram","date":"March 13, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"We lost our daughter. The system failed her. But our voice will never be silenced. When a family loses someone to violence, the pain never truly leaves. You carry it every day. 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