{"id":7864,"date":"2017-02-07T15:45:43","date_gmt":"2017-02-07T21:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=7864"},"modified":"2018-02-14T12:17:25","modified_gmt":"2018-02-14T18:17:25","slug":"murderers-denial-of-the-victim-and-victim-blaming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=7864","title":{"rendered":"Murderer&#8217;s Denial of the Victim&#8230;and Victim-blaming"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"7869\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=7869\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/stop-victim-blaming.jpg?fit=570%2C611&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"570,611\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"stop victim blaming\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/stop-victim-blaming.jpg?fit=570%2C611&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7869\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/stop-victim-blaming.jpg?resize=570%2C611&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/stop-victim-blaming.jpg?w=570&amp;ssl=1 570w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/stop-victim-blaming.jpg?resize=280%2C300&amp;ssl=1 280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 570px) 100vw, 570px\" \/>I have read, <span style=\"color: #333333;\">&#8220;<a class=\"SetPageTerm-definitionText\" style=\"color: #333333;\"><span class=\"TermText notranslate lang-en qDef\">Criminals sometimes neutralize wrongdoings by maintaining that the crime victim &#8220;had it coming.&#8221; This is an example of the\u00a0technique of neutralization.<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>In the past year I have heard from a person involved in Morgan&#8217;s murder&#8230;shocking I know, but not entirely unexpected. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>This female has been in trouble her whole life, and has always blamed others for her wrongdoing &#8211; so why stop now. \u00a0Does anyone think that a person involved in a criminal activities, like stalking and murder, will just admit what they did, and joyfully go to jail? \u00a0I really don&#8217;t ever hear of that happening, but I do read many articles about people that starting killing at a young age and were not caught until there were many other victims. \u00a0This female has used one-liners over and over when asked if she killed Morgan, as in her famous statement on the Dr. Phil Show, &#8220;Show me the proof.&#8221; \u00a0Ask most criminalists and they will tell you that an answer like that, to a direct question of culpability, is a <span style=\"color: #993300;\">major red flag&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993300;\">In the message I received from this female, she said Morgan was an &#8216;evil psychopath,&#8221; and said, &#8220;she had it coming,&#8221; \u00a0and &#8220;her death was an accident&#8221;\u00a0<span style=\"color: #333333;\">(they deny the injury)<\/span>, and she is happy because &#8220;Morgan deserved to die&#8221;\u00a0<span style=\"color: #333333;\">(they deny the responsibility)<\/span>. \u00a0She accused Morgan of &#8220;destroying people&#8217;s lives and making them kill themselves&#8221;\u00a0<span style=\"color: #333333;\">(they deny the victim)<\/span>. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>This is so &#8220;text book.&#8221; \u00a0This female is delusional. \u00a0She is giving herself, and others, a justification for Morgan&#8217;s death. \u00a0None of what she said to me was true, so it really didn&#8217;t upset me, but it was a &#8220;glimpse&#8221; into the mind of Morgan&#8217;s murderer. \u00a0Pretty scary stuff, and don&#8217;t think for a minute that this person has changed&#8230;no, she will only get bolder and harm more people in my opinion.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Syke &amp; Matza (1957) and Matza (1964) wrote their conclusions on the process of delinquent youths becoming criminals as a matter of neutralizing their personal values and attitudes as they drift from conventional behavior and illegitimate behavior.<\/p>\n<p>They deny responsibility, they deny the injury, they deny the victim.<\/p>\n<p>They condemn the condemners. \u00a0The say, &#8220;It was not my fault,&#8221; &#8220;No harm was done,&#8221; They had it coming.&#8221; \u00a0In their minds they really believe they can shift the blame and their guilt of the crime in order to lesson the value of the life they destroyed. \u00a0Sound familiar? \u00a0Well it sure does to me.<\/p>\n<p>This is a very basic article that explains the techniques of neutralization&#8230;i.e. Victim-blaming. \u00a0Excuses made by the person responsible for the crime in order to shift the blame from them to their victim.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.everydaysociologyblog.com\/2008\/10\/techniques-of-n.html\">http:\/\/www.everydaysociologyblog.com\/2008\/10\/techniques-of-n.html\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"7872\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=7872\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/monsters.jpg?fit=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"500,500\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"monsters\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/monsters.jpg?fit=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7872\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/monsters.jpg?resize=500%2C500&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/monsters.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/monsters.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/monsters.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have read, &#8220;Criminals sometimes neutralize wrongdoings by maintaining that the crime victim &#8220;had it coming.&#8221; This is an example of the\u00a0technique of neutralization. In the past year I have heard from a person involved in Morgan&#8217;s murder&#8230;shocking I know, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=7864\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88894,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[490,39],"tags":[1146,1182,111,519,710],"class_list":["post-7864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-morgans-investigation","category-tonis-reflections","tag-justiceformorgan","tag-techniqueofneutralization","tag-morganingram","tag-morgans-murderer","tag-victim-blaming"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2wvjS-22Q","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":7196,"url":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=7196","url_meta":{"origin":7864,"position":0},"title":"How to describe #Homicide","author":"Toni Ingram","date":"October 19, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"According to Cornell University Law School, \"Homicide is when one human being causes the death of another\". \u00a0Cornell University adds that while murder is one type of homicide, but not all forms of homicide are murder. Homicide includes murder, manslaughter and accidental, justifiable or excusable homicides. \u00a0Morgan's death was without\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Morgan's Investigation&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Morgan's Investigation","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?cat=490"},"img":{"alt_text":"murder","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/murder.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":8899,"url":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=8899","url_meta":{"origin":7864,"position":1},"title":"IT IS NOT OKAY TO BULLY OR BLAME THE VICTIM&#8230;EVER!","author":"Toni Ingram","date":"January 11, 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"This is exactly what I told Crime Watch Daily, \"It's not okay to blame victims, or to bully victims, they have had enough pain already. \u00a0Morgan always conducted her life here on earth with grace, compassion, understanding and love...and in honor of her, we will never allow these type of\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Morgan Ingram&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Morgan Ingram","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?cat=7"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/images.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":7960,"url":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=7960","url_meta":{"origin":7864,"position":2},"title":"Not a victim of stalking?  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