{"id":5306,"date":"2015-02-28T20:22:42","date_gmt":"2015-03-01T02:22:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=5306"},"modified":"2015-02-28T20:22:42","modified_gmt":"2015-03-01T02:22:42","slug":"typologies-of-stalkers-predicting-who-will-be-stalked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=5306","title":{"rendered":"Typologies of Stalkers &#8211; predicting who will be stalked&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The first thing I want to say is <strong>you can not predict who is going to be stalked<\/strong>, or why they are being stalked. \u00a0I have heard from so many victims and survivors of stalking that have said people have suggested to them that maybe &#8220;they&#8221; did something wrong that made them a target. \u00a0WRONG! \u00a0It is never the victims fault. \u00a0It wasn&#8217;t what they were wearing, it wasn&#8217;t how friendly they were, it wasn&#8217;t anything that THEY need to change, it is the person that exhibits the stalking behavior &#8211; not the victim!<\/p>\n<p>There are so many different types of stalkers and stalking situations.<\/p>\n<p>Facts from Purcell et al 2001; Meloy &amp; Boyd 2003. \u00a0There are 5 different typology classifications that are usually stated:<\/p>\n<p>1. The rejected stalker<\/p>\n<p>2. The resentful stalker<\/p>\n<p>3. The intimacy seeker<\/p>\n<p>4. The incompetent suitor<\/p>\n<p>5. The predatory stalker<\/p>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 15\">\n<div class=\"section\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<p>Personality disorders are predominate in the rejected stalker, erotomania can be the drive behind the resentful stalker, the intimacy seeker stalker is said to have paranoid disorders, the incompetent suitor often is an intellectually limited or a socially disabled individual, and the predatory stalker is believed to be a sexual deviant.<\/p>\n<p>Female stalkers usually have higher rates of psychosis than men.<\/p>\n<p>Stalking is a serious crime. \u00a0Risks associated with stalking:<\/p>\n<p>1. Violence<\/p>\n<p>2. Persistence<\/p>\n<p>3. Recurrence<\/p>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 24\">\n<div class=\"section\">\n<div class=\"layoutArea\">\n<div class=\"column\">\n<p>4. Psychosocial Damage<\/p>\n<p>Adults between 18 and 29 years old are the primary targets of stalking, comprising 52% of all victims. \u00a0<i>(Los Angeles Commission on Assaults Against Women website)\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Stalking is the most under reported crime in our nation. \u00a0Why? \u00a0Some victims and survivors have told me they don&#8217;t think they will be believed, some say they are embarrassed, others say they thought if they just ignored it then it would all go away&#8230;make no mistake your stalker won&#8217;t just go away. \u00a0Morgan thought if she ignored her stalker he would just go away &#8211; that never happened. \u00a0For stalkers it is most often a compulsion and they don&#8217;t stop.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some statistics:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>83% of stalking incidents were NOT reported to police or campus law enforcement (Ibid).<\/li>\n<li>93.4% of victims confided in someone, most often a friend that they were being stalked (Ibid).<\/li>\n<li>26.7% of victims considered their victimization a personal matter, and did not report it to police.<\/li>\n<li>Additionally, only &#8220;7% of victims contacted victim services, a shelter, or a helpline&#8221;(Baum, Catalano,&amp; Rand, 2009).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I believe so much more awareness about the true facts about stalking is needed. \u00a0It is an extremely serious and life-changing crime. \u00a0I understand why people that have never been stalked don&#8217;t completely understand &#8211; in the beginning of Morgan&#8217;s stalking she didn&#8217;t understand why she was targeted, and we had no idea about how lethal stalking could be.<\/p>\n<p>During Morgan&#8217;s stalking some people said, &#8220;Well maybe it&#8217;s just kids playing ding-dong-ditch, or just a joke.&#8221; \u00a0It wasn&#8217;t a joke, it was a constant frightening pattern of stalking. \u00a0She was regularly frightened, startled, surveilled, and followed. \u00a0Her life was taken from her. \u00a0It was not a kids game, it was a lethal game of cat and mouse and Morgan lost her life.<\/p>\n<p>Our once bright and safe house became a dark fortress. \u00a0Our peaceful evenings were no longer peaceful &#8211; they had become terrifying, stressful, and exhausting. \u00a0The more precautions we took the more her stalker seemed to enjoy his game. \u00a0This is why the Colorado State Legislature urges early intervention before stalking escalates into something more serious.<\/p>\n<p>We were told in the beginning not to share information about Morgan&#8217;s stalking with neighbors because the sheriffs believed her stalker was living in our neighborhood. \u00a0We know now that was not good advise &#8211; we should have shared the information immediately and often so others would become aware. \u00a0Also having neighbors who were watching out and reporting anything they saw would have been extremely helpful. \u00a0Rest assured as the sheriffs were called to our house on a regular basis the neighbors could see something was going on, so who were we kidding? \u00a0Community involvement is very important. Victims should tell everyone, family, friends, neighbors, classmates, teachers, employers, co-workers&#8230;everyone.<\/p>\n<p>Here is a very powerful youtube that will give you a little more understanding about the danger of stalkers:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=P8Pc6GEUfZ0\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=P8Pc6GEUfZ0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"fs_copy\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"fs_copy\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The first thing I want to say is you can not predict who is going to be stalked, or why they are being stalked. \u00a0I have heard from so many victims and survivors of stalking that have said people have &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=5306\">Continue reading <span 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