Trust your instincts. If something doesn\u2019t feel right it probably isn\u2019t. Be wary about how much information you reveal and advertise to others. Keeping a low profile, especially in regards to cyber- stalking, is important for maintaining your privacy. If possible, carry a cell phone on you at all times in case you need to call for help.<\/p>\n
If you are being stalked, you need to make it very clear to the stalker that you are not interested. A firm \u201cNo\u201d is a clear and concise message that you are not interested in their advances. Don\u2019t try to be polite by making up other excuses, as this leaves open windows for the stalker to think there is a chance.<\/p>\n
Notify family members or close friends if you believe you are being stalked, both to build support and put them on the lookout. This is especially important if you have children with your stalker. When going on trip, give a trusted friend your itinerary so that they can notify authorities if something goes wrong. Vary your habits (ex: taking different ways to work) so that you are not an easy target for your stalker to follow.<\/p>\n
Document Everything. <\/em><\/strong>The key to prosecuting a stalker is to document. Everything this individual does must be chronicled from the moment you believe you are being stalked. Also save everything the stalker sends you and record when and where you found it. Tape record phone calls the stalker leaves you and save voicemails, emails, instant messages and text messages. Keep your records in a safe place and make a copy to leave in another location.<\/p>\n Consider working with law enforcement professionals as early as possible. All states have anti-stalking legislation. Also, you may want to contact victim\u2019s rights advocate groups who specialize in domestic violence or stalking programs. Early intervention is always best when trying to stop stalking.<\/p>\n L<\/strong>EGAL <\/strong>O<\/strong>PTIONS<\/strong><\/p>\n Temporary Restraining Orders <\/em><\/strong>(called Orders of Protection in Colorado) are intended to notify your stalker that they must immediately stop harassing and otherwise contacting you. You must file paperwork with the court requesting such an order. You may also petition for a Work Place Restraining Order <\/em>which is similar to the TRO.<\/p>\n Stalking Emergency Protective Orders <\/em><\/strong>allows for police to immediately obtain emergency protection for victims in domestic violence and stalking cases. These can only be obtained with the help of a police officer.<\/p>\n The information above is from the\u00a0Office of Women\u2019s Programs and Studies \u25aa Colorado State University<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Trust your instincts. If something doesn\u2019t feel right it probably isn\u2019t. Be wary about how much information you reveal and advertise to others. Keeping a low profile, especially in regards to cyber- stalking, is important for maintaining your privacy. If … Continue reading