{"id":4439,"date":"2013-09-03T21:25:29","date_gmt":"2013-09-04T03:25:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=4439"},"modified":"2013-10-03T09:44:58","modified_gmt":"2013-10-03T15:44:58","slug":"understanding-the-stalker-and-the-responsibilities-of-being-a-good-parent-and-a-good-human-being","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=4439","title":{"rendered":"Understanding the stalker, and the responsibilities of being a good parent, and a good human being"},"content":{"rendered":"

As the world grows it learns. \u00a0The FBI has begun to further understand the intricate nuances of stalkers and their multifaceted dangers. \u00a0Click here for a great article to read about predatory stalkers.\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n

Keenan Vanginkel stalked and escalated, as predicted that he would. \u00a0The lead detective assigned to Morgan’s felony stalking case knew the escalation was coming, and tried to warn us only two days before Morgan’s murder, at the same time he said he felt he was getting very close to making an arrest. \u00a0I do not think the detective knew what kind of escalation it would be, but he did say he felt it would escalate, and sadly for our daughter Morgan it was all too little, and too late. \u00a0She is now dead, and after the unspeakable travesties of Garfield County, Steve and I are stuck in a gut-wrenching, and never-ending rut of correcting those who should have been protecting Morgan, and her rights (before, and after her murder), but were not…<\/p>\n

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The last words of the detective, before Morgan was killed, was not only that her stalking was going to – “if anything it’s most likely going to escalate,” it was also that he wasn’t sure if Keenan’s girlfriend Brooke was not involved at all – OR, as he had begun to think more so lately, that she was very involved. \u00a0When your daughter is murdered somehow the who was more involved loses some of its fire.<\/p>\n

So many lies have been uncovered that it is hard, really hard, not to point fingers at those who knew, and chose to pretend they did not. \u00a0Such as even the father of Brooke. \u00a0He confessed on the morning that Morgan’s body was found, to a client and certainly, by his own admissions, \u00a0knew enough to put a stop to it, but chose not to. \u00a0Instead he found it more important to protect his daughter.<\/p>\n

There is a trend unraveling in Colorado these days, parents exposing the crimes and culpability of their children so others will not suffer. \u00a0It is an in-depth and complex idea. \u00a0Just the slightest word from a parent to law enforcement, that is willing to listen, has solved some of the shocking crimes that plague Colorado of late. \u00a0But you see there are two parts to the equation. \u00a0First there is a parent willing to give up the knowledge, and then there is law enforcement willing to listen. Here are some examples recently in Colorado:<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0His mother called 911 on Oct. 23, saying he wanted to confess to the\u00a0Jessica Ridgeway Murder: Austin Sigg, teen suspect in slaying of 10-year-old Colo. girl\u00a0<\/span>Read more:\u00a0http:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/us\/2013\/04\/12\/colorado-teen-pleads-not-guilty-in-murder-10-year-old-girl\/#ixzz2dt6rZTJR<\/a><\/p>\n

2. In a plot to kidnap, beat a man and then dump him in the woods to starve<\/strong>, the parents of some of the boys that were plotting this crime turned over information about the alleged plot to the Eagle County Sheriff’s Office and Basalt Police Department. Read more:\u00a0http:\/\/www.vaildaily.com\/article\/20120420\/NEWS\/120429983<\/a><\/p>\n

In Morgan’s case there was neither. \u00a0On one hand the parent was, “just protecting his daughter,” \u00a0and on the other hand there were county officials that wanted to ignore what was, and had happened. \u00a0There was the Garfield County Sheriff Lou Vallario stating on camera for CBS Channel 4 that he would “never open this case.” \u00a0At least he knew it was a case. \u00a0And the contracted Forensic Pathologist was busily threatening me to stop having Morgan’s doctors, as well as other specialists tell him that she did not die of natural causes. \u00a0That at the very least (especially under the circumstances of felony stalking) Morgan’s case should have been written up as undetermined (open an investigation) or homicide (open an investigation). \u00a0Who threatens a mother to give up the quest for justice for their daughter?<\/p>\n

The only thing that has changed is not where I end, but rather where I start. \u00a0You see I have never had to suffer the loss of a murdered daughter before. \u00a0And I have never been left with the task of trying to squeeze justice from those that just want us to just go away. \u00a0The unbelievable has unfolded within this blog many times. \u00a0I now think it is about to take a turn for Morgan. \u00a0And if anyone deserves a turn at justice, it is our daughter Morgan. \u00a0She cared, and loved, and wanted only to help others. \u00a0That much is without doubt. \u00a0She was also viciously murdered, and suffered through every attempt that Garfield County has done to hide that fact.<\/p>\n

I so dearly wish I could share her smile with the world just one more time, but instead I will have to settle for letting everyone see what really happened to her. And hope that in so doing many more will be saved. \u00a0Stalking needs to be taken seriously by all offices of law enforcement (not just some), by all judges (not just some) and no more excuses, no more hidden agendas, we want transparency. \u00a0We miss you Morgan, but we will never give up the quest for justice.<\/p>\n

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As the world grows it learns. \u00a0The FBI has begun to further understand the intricate nuances of stalkers and their multifaceted dangers. \u00a0Click here for a great article to read about predatory stalkers.\u00a0 Keenan Vanginkel stalked and escalated, as predicted … Continue reading 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