{"id":3067,"date":"2013-02-28T18:37:01","date_gmt":"2013-03-01T01:37:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=3067"},"modified":"2013-02-28T18:57:03","modified_gmt":"2013-03-01T01:57:03","slug":"wouldnt-it-be-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=3067","title":{"rendered":"Wouldn\u2019t it be nice?"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Morgan<\/a>

Morgan with her family<\/p><\/div>\n

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What if there could just be a joint effort to solve crime? \u00a0Everyone involved working toward a common goal – the truth. \u00a0Remember the truth, it doesn’t change, stands the test of time, is certainly beyond a\u00a0shadow\u00a0of a doubt, will always remain convincing, and to be a preponderance of the evidence, is easy for the truth. \u00a0I did not start Morgan’s blog to convince someone of MY truth. I wanted to share what I knew to be true, what I had been told by doctors and every expert that Steve and I have been referred to, good and bad its all in here somewhere. \u00a0Except of course for the few smoking guns I’ve been advised to withhold for the time being.<\/p>\n

Wouldn’t it be nice if I were\u00a0sharing\u00a0all this with the Sheriff and the Coroner to clear up all the questions of Morgan’s case. \u00a0I would have like that, but instead I have received nothing but antagonistic responses the Sheriff \u00a0and Coroner the instant I had an opinion that differed from theirs. \u00a0I know better now, but I still think about how it would have been so so nice if the Sheriff and the Coroner had been actually interested in solving the death of Morgan, catching her stalker before he just does it again? \u00a0Bad guys behind bars, the valley a safer place. I have discovered the hard way that questioning anything they have concluded just causes an immediate and very serious case of ruffled feathers.\u00a0 And why is that?\u00a0 Wouldn\u2019t it be nice if we were working together on a crime, I really thought it was happening at first and then all of a sudden it became an argument about who is right, and how nothing should ever be questioned, and that was on a good day.<\/p>\n

I’m sure I have said this before but, always remember, it is not me and my opinion, it is an opinion of someone who should know that we have sought for their\u00a0expertise.\u00a0\u00a0 An opinion I double check, and triple check and in the beginning I was so na\u00efve I would just tell our Detective thinking he would welcome the truth with open arms.\u00a0 I thought the contracted forensic pathologist would be open to medical expertise far more specialized with far more assets at their disposal to be called upon, but no, not in my experience. \u00a0Especially since Dr. Kurtzman (the forensic pathologist that did the autopsy) said on the first PER (where he put her manner of death as natural), “Due to an active stalking investigation at the time of this report, and the potential influence of stress, the manner of death may be reclassified if additional pertinent information becomes available.” \u00a0So we went about writing, calling and emailing Morgan’s doctor’s and experts in different medical fields to correspond with the forensic pathologist with their findings. \u00a0First there was the discussions about how his interpretation that the amitriptyline levels on the first toxicology results were ‘insignificant’ \u00a0and completely dismissed as he concluded, “the absence of significant toxicology findings”. \u00a0Steve and I had so many experts write, try to call, try to email him that it was not insignificant, quite the opposite, and that their should be an investigation opened into her manner of death. He wanted the input at first, but I guess he feels he does not have to listen, \u00a0and he was not about to…no matter what he wrote on the first PER. \u00a0Now on the second PER (almost 9 months later) he wrote her manner of death as suicide, but stated in the report that, “if objective information is produced indication that the decedent was somehow forced against her will to consume an amitriptyline overdose and observed until incapacitated the manner of death may be reclassified as homicide.” \u00a0Well we now have objective information that will show that she did not<\/strong> inject herself with a lethal dose of Amitriptyline (enough to kill a horse) and was unable<\/strong> to give herself the other drugs that were in her gastric fluid when checked on the second PER because she would have been unable to that at that time…does that mean there would still have to be someone in the room watching this sick predator watch Morgan until she died in order for this to ever become a homicide in Dr. Kurtzman’s opinion? \u00a0We have come to wonder what is is he really is thinking.<\/p>\n

I think everyone will agree, well almost all of us, that there are differences between the abilities of one person, and the abilities of another.\u00a0 Say the crime lab in Garfield County and the FBI lab in Quantico. \u00a0I have never seen either one, but just based on what I hear and what seems logical the FBI lab in Quantico might be a little better, in fact I\u2019m confident it is a lot better.\u00a0 No slight on Garfield, just the way it is.\u00a0 What about investigations? \u00a0Could there be a law enforcement unit with more expertise and resources than Garfield County?\u00a0 Once again no slight on GarCo, just the way it is. \u00a0What if this law enforcement agency was not a federal agency in another state, but right here in Colorado? \u00a0They are called the CBI (Colorado Bureau of Investigation) and capable of a microscopic investigation of the crime scene instead of what Morgan had. \u00a0If all it took was a phone call, why would Garfield County Coroner’s or Sheriffs have not called in the CBI the morning that Morgan’s body was found? \u00a0Did they not care about my daughter? \u00a0Were they worried that if they collected real evidence like her sheets, pillow cases, used better equipment to scan, do a more thorough job that there would have been a different result? \u00a0My guess is there would have been a drastically different result. Not my opinion, but the opinion of those that do death scenes every day. \u00a0Now why didn’t they call them in?<\/p>\n

Then I have one more burning question.\u00a0 If one of these other\u2019s Steve and I have involved with more resources and expertise wishes to point out a mistake, what is the problem with that?\u00a0 On a conference call with the Forensic Pathologist he freely admitted not being very knowledgeable when it came to AIP a certain area of medical knowledgea \u00a0forensic pathologist really does not have much use for. \u00a0He said he rarely, if ever comes across it, in fact this was the first time. \u00a0He even suggested out on the coast in the bigger hospitals they might have a better understanding of AIP than he. \u00a0And was he ever right. \u00a0UCLA medical center has thousands of doctors all specializing and all sharing their knowledge to help. \u00a0What a concept. \u00a0Of course when they wanted to talk with Dr. Kurtzman about it, all of a sudden he is the expert, he is arguing with them.\u00a0 How in the world does that help Morgan or anyone else get justice? \u00a0His ego is more important than the crime being solved? \u00a0And if the crime is not solved who loses out besides Morgan and her family? \u00a0The rest of Garfield County where there is still a predator at large.<\/p>\n

When I hear about how things could have been conducted, or should have been conducted.\u00a0 About how agencies right here in Colorado are equipped to do a better job, but were not even allowed.\u00a0 It breaks my heart, every victim deserves the best we can give them.\u00a0 And that is not what happens right now.<\/p>\n

I read very recently that a group has been formed to explore ways the image of Colorado can be protected in the wake of all the National attention grabbing violence that has gone on in our state over the last year.\u00a0 To me this is really one of those times when treating the cause and not the effect has never been more true.\u00a0 Poor tactics, and an ego that could not accept help from others who did know, doomed my daughter. \u00a0Once a stalker and a person capable of murder entered her life the way they did, Morgan\u2019s life was forever changed.\u00a0 And sure we had choices that we did not implement, but the sad truth is until you do it and live out your life, you really don\u2019t know if it worked or not.<\/p>\n

The single most repeated piece of advice I have received about Morgan\u2019s case is that she herself or all of us together should have moved out of the area.\u00a0 And it really doesn\u2019t bother me to be second guessed, it\u2019s a good thing.\u00a0 Only by exploring all the options will there be new solutions.\u00a0 And I direct all of you who have not seen it to the stalking page<\/a> of Morgan\u2019s website.<\/p>\n

Right above the picture of Wylah comfortably riding on Morgan\u2019s shoulder is a three part story from Lifetime about a woman who was stalked for years through different states before she was finally gunned down by her stalker.\u00a0 When that man came into her life, it was forever changed.\u00a0 There is a very sad reason, a cause for her death, and we need a better way to treat it, because left to deal with the effect or ignoring the cause changes even more lives forever. \u00a0When it does not have to be like that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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