{"id":2879,"date":"2013-02-06T18:41:52","date_gmt":"2013-02-07T01:41:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=2879"},"modified":"2013-02-06T18:41:52","modified_gmt":"2013-02-07T01:41:52","slug":"december-24-2011-day-23-of-morgans-investigation-break-for-the-holidays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=2879","title":{"rendered":"December 24, 2011 \u2013 Day 23 of Morgan\u2019s investigation \u2013 Break for the holidays"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The story has been told once, but it was so special it bears telling again.\u00a0 Steve and I had made a decision, not a conscious decision, but a grief stricken parents decision that we would \u201cvisit Christmas\u201d but we would not really have a Christmas.\u00a0 I told friends and family as I spoke with them, and they agreed it was probably best, perhaps next year it would be better.<\/p>\n<p>So here we were, and it was Christmas Eve &#8211; our oldest daughter, and her husband were with us, they insisted that they had made a reservation, and we were all to go out to Aspen for a Christmas Eve dinner. \u00a0We agreed, we got ready to go, and I went in Morgan&#8217;s bathroom to check on Mogwai. \u00a0I was so shocked when I saw, sitting right on top of the closed lid of Morgan&#8217;s toilet seat, her gold round box with a tassle on the top&#8230;it was her honey glitter powder she always wore when she was going out somewhere special. \u00a0I couldn&#8217;t figure out how it had gotten there&#8230;most of all her stuff had been packed up. \u00a0I called Steve and our oldest daughter into the bathroom but neither of them could figure out how it got there either. \u00a0Then I started to smile &#8211; Morgan wanted her sister, and I to put on the honey glitter before we went out&#8230;so we did. \u00a0It was like having Morgan with us. \u00a0We drove to Aspen and it was beautiful, with all the snow and the lights glittering, and people bustling around, but I still could not shake the feeling like I wish I could just curl up in bed in a ball, and never deal with anything again. \u00a0But then this amazing warmth fell over me, and I knew in my heart that it was not what Morgan would have wanted, so we went out to dinner, and tried to have a good time. \u00a0It was really nice being with our oldest daughter and her husband &#8211; they were trying their best to have bubbly, happy thoughts and memories, and the food was wonderful. \u00a0We finished dinner and walked back to the car. \u00a0We drove back down valley, and went to bed. \u00a0As I lay there I was thinking Christmas Eve had always seemed so exciting and magical to me &#8211; wrapping and hiding presents for kids, cooking and inviting friends over &#8211; I had never been one for going out and eating in a restaurant, but I guess our lives never really stay the same. \u00a0Change is always just around the corner, and I knew it was time for us to change as well. \u00a0Morgan&#8217;s gift of leaving her honey glitter out so we could wear it was very special, and it made me feel like she was still with us, and that was magical enough for me, so I drifted off to sleep.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today is February 6, 2013 \u2013<\/strong> Remembering her beautiful soul and all that she gave the world in her time helps me realize it is so much more important than remembering how horribly she has been treated since her death as some people try to cover things up.\u00a0 The true Morgan will shine forever, and I applaud all of those who help her memory, with all that she gave to others she should be remembered as she was.<\/p>\n<p>Steve\u2019s identity has apparently been stolen, he discovered this through a letter just delivered at his shop of all places, the first of many I am sure.\u00a0 I have things that need attending to sooner rather than later.\u00a0 Yet how trivial this all is in comparison to the sacrifice Morgan was not asked, but forced to give.\u00a0 The full truth is all that remains to come from this horrific tale &#8211; that and the sharing of hope for all other victims.\u00a0 If only Morgan were here to touch you all and share her presence with every single victim of stalking.\u00a0 The difference she would make is without doubt immeasurable.\u00a0 If she could have been there for you she would have, Morgan would have dropped everything to be there at your side. To assist and help in this unbelievably trying time for you.\u00a0 That she can help others only now in spirit is beyond Morgan\u2019s control &#8211; but she will help through others. \u00a0Steve and I will take up the torch &#8211; she would so gladly have chosen to carry if she could is without question.\u00a0 It is an honor, and it is our destiny to carry on for her where she can not. \u00a0And for the wonderful people who assist us in this &#8211; thank you so very, very much&#8230;we couldn&#8217;t do it without you.<\/p>\n<p>We all miss you, and we all love you Morgan\u2026<a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2883\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=2883\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?fit=1536%2C1536&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1536,1536\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;221&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1314199803&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Morgans iphone self\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?fit=584%2C584&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2883\" alt=\"Morgans iphone self\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?resize=584%2C584&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"584\" height=\"584\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?w=1536&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Morgans-iphone-self.jpg?w=1168&amp;ssl=1 1168w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The story has been told once, but it was so special it bears telling again.\u00a0 Steve and I had made a decision, not a conscious decision, but a grief stricken parents decision that we would \u201cvisit Christmas\u201d but we would &hellip; 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