{"id":1186,"date":"2012-09-13T16:44:27","date_gmt":"2012-09-13T22:44:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1186"},"modified":"2019-08-28T13:22:42","modified_gmt":"2019-08-28T19:22:42","slug":"september-16-2011-day-46-of-morgans-stalking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1186","title":{"rendered":"September 16, 2011 \u2013 Day 46 of Morgan\u2019s Stalking"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_1185\" style=\"width: 614px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=1185\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1185\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1185\" data-attachment-id=\"1185\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?attachment_id=1185\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/MJ.pensive.jpg?fit=604%2C453&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"604,453\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"MJ.pensive\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Morgan Jennifer, deeply in thought&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/MJ.pensive.jpg?fit=584%2C438&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1185\" title=\"MJ.pensive\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/MJ.pensive.jpg?resize=584%2C438&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"MJ thinking\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/MJ.pensive.jpg?w=604&amp;ssl=1 604w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/MJ.pensive.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/morgansstalking.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/MJ.pensive.jpg?resize=400%2C300&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1185\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Morgan Jennifer, deep in thought<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Morgan was so upset in the morning. I kept asking her about the car that followed her, if she had any more details that she could remember.\u00a0 She said she remembers the silhouette of a small car, couldn&#8217;t tell what color, she remembered the outline of a male driving, and female in the passenger seat. By the time she drove into the CMC parking lot all she wanted to do was see which way they were going so she could take off in the opposite direction.\u00a0 Which is what she did, driving onto Highway 133, the closest thing to a busy street there is in Carbondale.\u00a0 I kept asking her questions and she blew, sarcastically screaming that of course she should have stopped, and snapped a picture with her iPhone, but she didn\u2019t, she just thought about getting away! \u00a0Morgan had done the right thing, but being followed was very scary for her and rightly so.<\/p>\n<p>Ironically, Elliott from across the street calls me, and wonders how it\u2019s been.\u00a0 I told him immediately about Morgan being followed the night before.\u00a0 Elliott tells me that he just heard from Brooke&#8217;s mom that Keenan had been gone hunting, but now he is now back.\u00a0 I pause and shake my head, there is this fear of everything, and anything, whether I like to admit it or not, that had become a part of my life then.\u00a0 Elliott was talking about Keenan, and I was wondering if I could trust Elliott.\u00a0 If I said something, would it go right back to Brooke&#8217;s mom, and then to you know who? \u00a0There is nothing good about feeling like that, but I do not tell Elliott that it had been quiet for days.\u00a0 I wanted to ask him when he left, but he had to get off the phone so I didn&#8217;t do that either.<\/p>\n<p>We had been told that Morgan\u2019s case was finally being assigned to a detective, that it would be a few days before we would get a call from him. \u00a0I made a note in my dayrunner to ask the detective if he could find out what days Keenan had been gone on his trip.\u00a0 I circled it in red.\u00a0 Couldn\u2019t imagine what Morgan had felt like in the car.\u00a0 Everyone had a different idea. Drive home, don\u2019t go home, drive to the police station, no it was night time and they could all be out on patrol.\u00a0 Last night in bed Steve and I had walked through every combination and every single one had a glitch in it.\u00a0 There was never a, \u201cOh that\u2019s perfect, I\u2019ll tell Morgan that in the morning, she\u2019ll be so relieved.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That afternoon when Steve came home we went straight to the next order of business.\u00a0 A restraining order.\u00a0 It was being suggested more, and more, and maybe it was just me but I grew up in Los Angeles and had watched restraining orders fail in the most horrific ways.\u00a0 As in gunned down in a parking structure the next day, dead.\u00a0 But Steve was right we had to do more, I just wasn\u2019t comfortable with this solution.<\/p>\n<p>Steve had one prevailing thought.\u00a0 What if we had one long shot chance of catching him, detaining him, or positively identifying him in the yard.\u00a0 With no restraining order, what if he said he was retrieving his tennis ball, and tada! it all became nothing?\u00a0 With a restraining order it is a felony.\u00a0 There is a difference. \u00a0We wrestled with the pros and cons for quite a while and ended with the decision to defer to the detective.\u00a0\u00a0 He would be assigned any day and we would get his input, and allow that to tip the scales.<\/p>\n<p>That night Morgan and I went to do a Pathfinders volunteer call.\u00a0 A mother had cancer and it was her birthday and anniversay. \u00a0She had 2 young boys and needed a babysitter so she could go out with her husband for a few hours to celebrate. \u00a0Morgan and I played with her children, while she and her husband went to dinner and a movie. \u00a0I had a wonderful time with Morgan.\u00a0 She loved children, and they always sensed something special in her.\u00a0 We played little games and stayed with them until their parents came home. \u00a0Then Morgan and I drove home together and talked in the car&#8230;only about kids and happy things, not about the stalker.<\/p>\n<p>Just before we got home Morgan said she wished that since it was so late and we were coming home from Aspen that the stalker would have already given up for the night and leave her alone.\u00a0 And this night, her wish was answered. \u00a0We had a quiet night.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><i>(Police reports later show the \u201csuspect\u201d was not working the evening of 9.16.2011)<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Click here to read about the 47th day of Morgan\u2019s stalking <a href=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1194\">https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1194<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Morgan was so upset in the morning. I kept asking her about the car that followed her, if she had any more details that she could remember.\u00a0 She said she remembers the silhouette of a small car, couldn&#8217;t tell what &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1186\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88894,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[114,115,32,980,111,17,116,979],"class_list":["post-1186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stalking","tag-followed-by-stalker","tag-getting-away","tag-morgan","tag-morgan-ingram","tag-morganingram","tag-morgans-stalking","tag-safe-from-stalkers","tag-stalking"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2wvjS-j8","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1177,"url":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1177","url_meta":{"origin":1186,"position":0},"title":"September 15, 2011 \u2013 Day 45 of Morgan\u2019s stalking \u2013 How Safe Is The Car?","author":"Toni Ingram","date":"September 12, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Morgan left to visit friends after dinner, we followed our little routine, where I walk her out to her car armed with pepper spray.\u00a0 I watched her backing down the drive, and into the street before going back into my office. 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