{"id":1096,"date":"2012-09-09T11:57:33","date_gmt":"2012-09-09T17:57:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1096"},"modified":"2019-08-27T14:24:32","modified_gmt":"2019-08-27T20:24:32","slug":"monday-september-12-2011-day-42-of-morgans-stalking-our-daughter-is-so-stressed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgansstalking.com\/?p=1096","title":{"rendered":"Monday September 12, 2011 \u2013 Day 42 of Morgan\u2019s stalking – Our Daughter Is So Stressed!"},"content":{"rendered":"

In the afternoon I take a break from work and go in the kitchen.\u00a0 So many afternoons like this Morgan and I would talk about anything.\u00a0 But it is quiet, I hear her in her room, singing to her pets.\u00a0 I went and knocked on her door, Morgan yells out, \u201cCome in momacita!\u201d and I do.\u00a0 Morgan is hard at work, hand sewing thick burgundy flannel sheets to fit over her really high windows.\u00a0 She tells me that what she already put over her upper windows was too thin, and this will block out all the light.<\/p>\n

We talk – Morgan has given the stalker some thought, and she tells me she is worried the stalker can see into her room from up high.\u00a0 She\u00a0doesn’t\u00a0want even a silhouette of her to escape her room. \u00a0I asked why she thought he could see through her top windows, they are really high up.\u00a0 Through her upper windows, with the drapes she had already put up, the most you could make out would be a shadow on the ceiling, if that. \u00a0It was not like our rear windows where the stalker could stand up on the berm and see things inside the house.<\/p>\n

\"Morgan<\/a>

Morgan lying outside,
smiling for another picture!<\/p><\/div>\n

Morgan paused and looked at me.\u00a0 I think he could be on Rhonda\u2019s roof next door. \u00a0\u201cWhy? I asked, “Have you seen him?\u201d Morgan shook her head, \u00a0\u201cNo, if I had don\u2019t you think I would have told you\u201d.\u00a0 \u201cOf course\u201d I answered back. I walked behind Morgan and touched her shoulders, I didn\u2019t want her to see how upset I was, and I didn\u2019t think that it was possible for her stalker to be up on the next door neighbor\u2019s roof.\u00a0 I told Morgan her shoulders were so tense they were like rocks, and I didn\u2019t believe anyone was up on our neighbor\u2019s roof.\u00a0 Sammy, our neighbor’s dog was always barking around the time our motion lights, outside Morgan\u2019s room, would go off, he was very protective and alert, but it seemed a little crazy to think this stalker had gotten onto our neighbor’s roof.<\/p>\n

Little did I know at the time she was right, and I was not \u2013 this stalker had been on our roof, and probably our neighbor\u2019s roof as well.\u00a0 Nothing happened tonight \u2013 it was quiet.<\/p>\n

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\"Tessi<\/a>

Tessi is trying to get some sleep too !<\/p><\/div>\n

Today September 9, 2012<\/strong>, as I write this, I remember yesterday’s blog and recalled that my entire night was upset because Tessi barked, once.\u00a0 What I should really have said was that my entire night was upended because my daughter had a stalker, AND THEN, our dog barked, once.\u00a0 On the day last year that Morgan was making her extra thick window coverings, she was fighting back, Morgan was courageous, but it was also taking its toll.\u00a0 I\u2019m sure I\u2019ve said it before, so I\u2019m not going to even check before telling you that stalking takes such a big toll on your life.\u00a0 Every little thing you say, and do has to then be put through the stalker processor.\u00a0 You stalker becomes a consideration – in a quick trip to the store, the wattage of your lights, how cranked open the windows can be, how drawn completely closed is the new required position for all window coverings \u2013 and even if you have to make them yourself, thicker window coverings for your clearstory windows, which just might allow you to sleep a little more soundly.<\/p>\n

A stalker, for reasons I may never understand, wants to invade your life, own it as much as possible, which is why they do all the things they do. \u00a0As I write this blog \u00a0I have heard, over and over, stories from other victims about how frightening it became as their stalking escalated:<\/p>\n